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When my penis erect it hardens and erect close to my stomach aka facing upward, and it is very hard on the base and quite difficult for me to move it facing forward/ 90 degrees, and not to mention it is impossible for me to move my erected penis facing downwards.

Is it normal? Because I watched porn, a lot the male actor's penis are although erected, is still flexible, able to move freely (up, down, front, down...back?). And they are able to perform various sexual positions that is impossible for me like how actors intercourse with their heads facing away from each other or twisted doggy (I just googled it), so I'm a bit concern of myself.

Shining Star
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Hey KaktusC,

I think this is perfectly normal, and not a penis disorder. Not all are flexible and performing twisted doggy is not a standard pose.

Perhaps you have a very strong erection and this of course is connected to your flexibility. I think you shouldn't have any difficulties during sexual intercourse. Or did you have? 

If you want to increase your flexibility you could perform penis exercises: jelqing. these exercises are usually advertized as penis enlargement exercises, but they for sure influence penis flexibility too.

 

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Yes TaniaT I do have a very hard erection. I realize I have difficulties inserting my penis into my partner. Instead of a kneeling and thrusting forward, I would have to bend my body down face to face with her and thrust upwards. It's easy to say why am I am bummed out about this, it is because I label myself being abnormal. Though the function is not affected, and (although difficult) I am still able to have my penis facing forward; I am concerned about the sexual happiness between me and my partner for unable to try out new positions in the future.

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When my penis erect it hardens and erect close to my stomach facing upward in the sky is it any penis problem or any disorder

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I AM 13 AND I TOO HAVE A PENIS WHEN I GET HARD SLAPS AGAINST MY BELLY AND POINTS STRAIGHT UP, IT ALSO THROBS BY ITSELF, I WORRY AS I GET ERECTIONS WHEN I AM NAKED SUCH AS AT SCHOOL SHOWERS OR WHEN I GO TO THE SHOWERS AT THE BEACH I HAVE TO GO COMPLETLY NUDE OR I GET SAND IN MY ASS AND GROIN AREA BUT WITH MY HARDON IT IS SO HARD TO TRY TO HIDE IT WHEN I AM HARD WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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You certainly are not "abnormal", but your erection isn't exactly "normal" either; it is exceptional. Some hard penises point up as well as out. But only a few, mostly very young, men get so hard that their penises stick straight up. If it is not painful for you, then you are okay.

Chances are that your girlfriend likes how extraordinarily stiff your penis gets for her. She may even like that you need to get your body and face close to her in order to be inside her. It's a good idea to talk about it with her to let her know your concern about your erection and about her, and find out how she feels about it. To the extent that it's a "problem", discussing and experimenting will make it more comfortable for both of you.

It's likely that as you get older, your erection will be less hard and more flexible. It will begin to point forward more and less upward. Then you will be able to perform more positions. In the meantime, enjoy it for how your body is now. As for thinking that you're different, your superior erections should give you pride and confidence in your masculinity.
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During puberty my erections became ever more vertical until like you my penis came to stand close to my stomach. This was all the more weird since I was hard frequently. On the other hand I didn't have the "tent" problem other guys I knew had. Today I'm 26. It's true that the angle of my erections changed a little bit but not that much and I'm still pretty much "upright" when hard, but sexually it works great.
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I m glad we have the same thing happening
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