ive been with my boyfriend for nearly two years but throught the relationship ive alwyas been tight, but its getting worse recently and i dont seem to be getting as wet. he always has to finger me first and even when he does that i am still quite tight, and i dont know why. any help or tips?
Just a guess here, but you may becoming somewhat "bored" by sex.
Try spicing it up by trying it in different locations, at different times, with different prompts or moods...
A good way to try to liven this up is to try a water-based lube like "Wet" or "Moist" or "Liquid KY"... You can carry it descretely in a purse and whip it out when you want some. He doesn't have to know that you've got it, though he most likely will. I've found the additional moisture not only makes me think my girl is more excited, but the improved sensations DO get her more excited. So everyone "wins".
As for "tightness", could it be that you don't want sex right then, but you are going along for him? (Just thinking aloud here. Perhaps a woman can help answer this better.) 8-|
Try spicing it up by trying it in different locations, at different times, with different prompts or moods...
A good way to try to liven this up is to try a water-based lube like "Wet" or "Moist" or "Liquid KY"... You can carry it descretely in a purse and whip it out when you want some. He doesn't have to know that you've got it, though he most likely will. I've found the additional moisture not only makes me think my girl is more excited, but the improved sensations DO get her more excited. So everyone "wins".
As for "tightness", could it be that you don't want sex right then, but you are going along for him? (Just thinking aloud here. Perhaps a woman can help answer this better.) 8-|
It sounds to me like it could be a bit of nerves. I know that you have been together for awhile but if you're still that tight, that's a matter of relaxing that you're not doing. That's something you're going to need to start doing. THere are resources to figure it out however. What do you think? Does that sound plausible?
I have never thought the issue of being or staying tight could ever be an actual issue. But I too have come to a dry spell, I'm 24 been with my boyfriend 2 months and already becoming dry during sex. At first was complete opposite. I mean he is kind of big and we both have a very high sex drive.
For me not getting wet seems like trying to have sex with a limp penis. I have no idea how to fix me.
me and my fiancé have been together for a few months and have been sexually active and recently I've been extremely dry and for the past month I've been tight, and its just getting worse.. help please...
Hi guest. You don't really give much information about your problem, how old are you, have you had this happen before, did you use to get wet when you first started having intercourse with your partner, do you have foreplay before intercourse if so what and how long, are you feeling aroused when having intercourse, are you feeling relaxed or anxious when he is penetrating you, are you tight all the time through intercourse, is he on the big side, can you get wet if you masturbate alone and do you still feel tight if you insert your fingers when masturbating, are you alone in the house when your having intercourse and has anyone ever walked in on you having intercourse?
Answering question like that will help find out what's going on and to get to the cause.