why do I feel bad after masterbating?

femoral over a year ago

hey! i m gal 21 years old..but i feel the same problem after ev such event..i do it very rare! but i feel like i m killing inside just after doing dat! i m virgin! i do not enter any thng into my ** but i feel like its embarassing! too much! and i feel like this thing leave sm impacts on my face too! :( is it! and will this affect my virginity??

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Guest over a year ago

hey! i m girl 21 years old! and i feel the same after ev such event! although i m virgin! and i do'nt enter any thing into my ** but i feel so embarrassing and killing just fter dat! and also i feel like it leaves sm effects on my face too! is it or not?? and does it affect my virginity??

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Guest over a year ago

Hi, im a guy 25 years old, I just had an hour long mustibation, then searched google and now I'm here. Right now I feel so bad that I can't look myself in the mirror I'm dusguiseted with what I just done, I feel bad because of: • i keep promising I weren't do it again • family • religion.... I think I do it because of stress of work and that my live really isn't going anywhere, and I hate my body so it feels good at first then after I feel like committing sucide!

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subscribed mark over a year ago

An hour?????

As Darlene said about D J when he was in the bathroom for an hour: you must be really bad at it ------- or really, really good at it.

You probably do do it because of stress at work. It's a wonderful stress reliever. Having an orgasm releases endorphins that are the body's own pain killers so they make you feel good too.

There's nothing to be disgusted about. It's a natural thing to do. You've been brainwashed to feel that way.

If you're serious when you say you feel like committing suicide please get some help for that. Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255):

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Guest over a year ago

im 15 year old BOY, i masterbate atleast 3-4 times a day , i have been masterbating since i was bout 11, watched alot of porn since then too, i really enjoy masterbating but i also feen abit weird after i blow my load sometime ? -_-

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Guest over a year ago

Guys cant you see that what this is is a guilty conscience? You know deep down that it is wrong. Thats why it feels bad afterwords. God is trying to prevent you from continuing in your sin. Now, before you dismiss me as a religious fanatic, read all these comments. See for yourself, it is definitely guilt. There is no biological reason to fell bad. It is your conscience. Your spiritual "fire alarm." And like a couple people said, "if you just keep doing it, it will stop feeling bad afterwords." That is called desensitizing your conscience. Instead, listen to and obey your conscience. You cleary know that there is right and wrong, as is evident that your conscience "sounds" after you masterbate. Trust me, i used to do it, but when i stopped (through God's power) i started feeling way better. GOD IS REAL. MIRACLES HAPPEN. GOD IS LOGICAL. TURN TO HIM. HE IS TRUTH.

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subscribed mark over a year ago

God IS real and miracles DO happen but I do not believe He gave us these wonderful pleasure centers in our bodies just so He could say don't use them.

You do know there is no purpose for a woman's clitoris other than for her pleasure. Do you think that was God's mistake when he produced that design? Or maybe he was just having a bad day and wanted to do something mean by devising such a pleasure so he could tell them not to enjoy it.

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Guest over a year ago

Well honestly I do not know if masterbating is a sin in itself, but a have a sneaky suspicion that all these people are either watching porn while doing it, or at least having sexual fantasies, which Jesus clearly condemned. That is what i was mainly getting at but i did not specifically say that its just the porn/fantasies that make them feel guilty because i think maybe just masturbating is a sin. Like even if you dont have fantasies or porn. But i do not know. You know, God could have made the clitoris specifically for a husband and wife to enjoy together. Then again, scripture doesn't really explicitely say anything about masturbation. Anyways, so what do you think about that? Do you think that masturbating without fantasies or porn is sin?

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subscribed mark over a year ago

I must tell you I believe the Bible was written (and edited) by men.

I don't think there are any audio recordings to back up what someone said Jesus said and then wrote about it 50 to 100 years later. I think we have proven quite convincingly in recent years that eyewitness testimony is about as unreliable as you can get. Then add in the fact that most writings in the Bible were done a lifetime after the fact so they must be mostly second or third hand.

I think it's pretty safe to say God didn't write it so we are really left with abiding by our own beliefs and personal interpretations.

So I guess you can believe what you want and I can believe what I want. I'm not here to argue religion, I was simply stating my opinion.

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Guest over a year ago

Um. Ya. Ok.

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Grant buddy over a year ago

Maybe you are just depressed and Grant probably used whatever toy your using to 'enjoy' by the way was your sex toy a catiplillar? if so, quite fancy

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fox over a year ago

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Ricvaa over a year ago

Wow! This is a great conversational piece!!

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Somebody Like over a year ago

Agreed, now that I think about it. when I got older I started feeling more guilty about it, I'm 15 been doing it since I was like 13.

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yeah over a year ago

i started when i was 8 and it felt good then years later i starting getting a bad feeling or reaction like something wasnt right i think its because our bodies feel alone they need a women to take care of your family jewles and the magic stick your body doesnt want to be taking care of its self but to take care of a women that makes you feel happy instead of jacking off to a photo,video,or sex moans all you have to do is get a girl f**k her when your both ready dont forget about protection and you will feel good.

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