hey , i think you are trying to stop it and you can't , so you feel bad and regret after you finish , that happen to me too , couse i know that i'm doing a bad thing and i can't stop it and for me .... it have a very bad effect on my relation with god , i can't pray . i can't go to the church , i can't talk to jesus !!!!!!
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it isn't the real desire of your heart. You were just driven by your feelings,
YES it would make you feel good at first but in your heart there is a guilt planted to you by the wrong act you've done.
Your real JOY, will only come from Christ. and it is not his desire.
it is the desire of the devil. who enjoys fooling us and imparting us guilt of our acts.
YES! MASTERBATION CAN MAKE US FEEL GOOD.
But your real happiness and joy comes from Jesus.
"You can not overcome Lust alone, but with the help of the Lord, you'll get rid of it " ^^,
YES it would make you feel good at first but in your heart there is a guilt planted to you by the wrong act you've done.
Your real JOY, will only come from Christ. and it is not his desire.
it is the desire of the devil. who enjoys fooling us and imparting us guilt of our acts.
YES! MASTERBATION CAN MAKE US FEEL GOOD.
But your real happiness and joy comes from Jesus.
"You can not overcome Lust alone, but with the help of the Lord, you'll get rid of it " ^^,
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Nearly 90% of men experience this, it is a biological fact. When prolactin increases after ejaculation, dopamine decreases, thereby causing libido and happiness to decrease for a little while, for a few minutes at most. Don't worry, it'll go away eventually.
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I feel the same way, like, when i start it feels great and im all pumped but right after i blow a load i just feel this embarassment to myself and i dont know why.. im 16 now and when i was 14 i could auto fello and i guess i should feel bad about that but i felt awesome before i finished but like always after i finished i would feel horrible and want nothing to do with sex... same way when i am with a woman. after i finish up i feel regret...
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you feel bad....the same happens to mee too....
and the worst part is you cant help it by jst sittin nd thnkin abt it.....
so instead of jst sitin idle watch tv,play outdoor games or play ps(2,3)
and the worst part is you cant help it by jst sittin nd thnkin abt it.....
so instead of jst sitin idle watch tv,play outdoor games or play ps(2,3)
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ya it was the same as what u said it feels good and then i feel bad about my self ?
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And every time I buy a car, there are dozens just like it that appear around here, like magic.
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Baisicly, i felt guilty for about 5 months, and i thought OMG i can't be doing this. Until i read an artical on why its not a sin/bad thing, they said something like
1) We All Do It
2) Its Safer Then Sex
3) You Choose How
So don't feel guilty, coz its something every fe/male does, and like, i would say 80% of people cant live without it.. :-) THANKS :-D <3 Aj :-)
1) We All Do It
2) Its Safer Then Sex
3) You Choose How
So don't feel guilty, coz its something every fe/male does, and like, i would say 80% of people cant live without it.. :-) THANKS :-D <3 Aj :-)
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Well, It was the same for me when i started masturebateing it felt great... after a year or two the porn i was watching kept turning me off affter i was done... But then when i got clsoe to girls.. it dosent seem too bother me. Also i actully taught myself that... Theres nothing wrong its natrual and there is no reason to feel bad" and that reallllly helped.
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im a girl 15, and i have the same proble, i came to this site to see if anyone else was having this problem. i think its cause you wish it was a guy pleasuring you . but you just have to let it go, its all in your head.
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Yeah that happens to me a lot. I do it a few times a month I guess and I always have that shameful feeling after... :/
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