That's quite a dissertation there Guest, but I don't believe you. If you were as religious as you say, you would not dishonor the Lord by spelling His name wrong.
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Ok so I think I know why. I um used to get this alot when i believed masterbation was bad but that went away and now it's a different kind of deppresion/pain. Its because you want REAL relationship with a women... or whatever your into. And not just sex because sex isn't love. So don't worry about it and lay off the porn for awhile, socialize.
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I was addicted to masturbation but later got delivered through a Christian inner healing and deliverance ministry and kicked the habit for good. Masturbation usually starts in childhood a way to relieve tension and get the dopamine rush that comes with orgasm. That explains the fulfilled feeling. However, after the orgasm comes feelings of uncleanness and guilt. This creates more tension and lowers the dopamine levels leading to the urge to masturbate again. Thus a cycle of release, fulfillment and guilt is created. Click on
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You feel bad cause it is bad, not just physically but morally and spiritually. It isn't "good" or "recommended," or even needed. your body naturally releases excess semen during wet dreams.
And the pornography is another very serious issue as well. Both can cause addiction, and both are harmful physiologically if not physically. In order to stop, you must ween your self off of it, by doing it less frequently and busing yourself with something else when you feel like you want to do it. I had issues with masturbation myself when I was younger and I had the same feeling, and trust me it feels sooo much better abstaining from it. Stopping also helps boost your self esteem and self confidence
hopes this helps you and everyone else :-)
And the pornography is another very serious issue as well. Both can cause addiction, and both are harmful physiologically if not physically. In order to stop, you must ween your self off of it, by doing it less frequently and busing yourself with something else when you feel like you want to do it. I had issues with masturbation myself when I was younger and I had the same feeling, and trust me it feels sooo much better abstaining from it. Stopping also helps boost your self esteem and self confidence
hopes this helps you and everyone else :-)
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The reason you feel bad is because your endorphine levels get a bit wacked out.
When you masturbate you release alot of endorphines (the happy hormone). and this causes a spike of endorphines in your body that it isnt used to. So to rebalance your endorphine levels your body stops producing it and usually undershoots until they are back to normal. That guilt you feel is that undershoot of endorphine.
When you masturbate you release alot of endorphines (the happy hormone). and this causes a spike of endorphines in your body that it isnt used to. So to rebalance your endorphine levels your body stops producing it and usually undershoots until they are back to normal. That guilt you feel is that undershoot of endorphine.
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Ok so I'm a girl i yea yea and afterwards I feel really bad but I'm also a virgin nd I do it alot like 3-4 times a day I.don't know why plz help my ex and now really good friend says I'm sexually frustrated
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I do believe it has to do with a chemical reaction, at least in my case. I dont have any regrets about sex at all. Usually it happens to me when it was a very intense one, masturbating or with a girl. Usually the second case (with a girl) the "guilt" its harder to achieve as girls are lubricated and its less "rough" if we can call it that way. There was a time this happen often, it was a weird feeling/sensation along the back of my body, like along the spine. Im pretty sure it has something to do with a chemical reaction. I grow up surrounded by very open minded people and I have no reasons to regret masturbation, and even less to have sex. Plus, its not happening all the times, nowadays it happens rarely. So ... WHERE DOES IT COME FROM???
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hi,
I watched a video recently, and it said it is perfectly normal to feel bad afterwords.I always thought it was God who was punishing me for what i have done.But then i realized that is is probably because your brain is disappointed that you aren't busy f@cking a chick! lol
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I watched a video recently, and it said it is perfectly normal to feel bad afterwords.I always thought it was God who was punishing me for what i have done.But then i realized that is is probably because your brain is disappointed that you aren't busy f@cking a chick! lol
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The reason you have the guilt is because it's a sin to lust, and think of other women in wrong ways. It happens because your conscience is telling you what you just did is wrong and if you don't fix the main problem them you will never get over that guilt. Its in us because God put it into everyone. To remove the guilt of sin you need to repent and ask God to remove the guilt and condemnation of that sin, and I promise you, you will immediately feel that God has removed the guilt from you. I can put my life on that.
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hello, i too had that 'aftermath' feeling. it's horrible, but when i got to know more guys it just slowly stopped. i think there is a link there, you know with the chemicals in the male and female bodys around there teens. it'll probablygo away in a few years at the most. :-)
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You Guys feel guilty Because you cant get girlfriends or real girls to make you happy lol its true when your cuming you feel so good then notice dam its just me doing myself again what a loser but then dont worry your get a girl soon and enjoy this. For the fellows that have a girlfriend or wife you just feel sad after because you feel like you cheated on her but don't worry chances are she pleasures herself more then you think lol
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I am a 19 year old female who has been, well, pleasuring herself since 8. At 8, mind you, I didn't know what it was. I happened by it on accident one day in the tub. I didn't start feeling horribly guilty until I found out in 8th grade that I had been masturbating that whole time! Since then, I had been living with 6 years of guilt. I come from a very religious household, so it's natural to feel this way.
However, I don't think it's all bad! I mean, I was not at all guilty when I didn't know what it was. Then, as soon as it had a label, I felt atrocious. I believe in God and lust, but I don't think it should be condemned. There are women my age that are just now marrying or have been married for a year now. They don't get judged for having sex because it is within marriage. I can't help but think that if I am not indulging in sex, I should be able to release that sexual tension, especially at 19!
There is a reason for everything on earth; the stones, crystals, trees, water, animals, orgasms, feelings, religion, etc. Why not use it? It isn't horribly wrong to indulge a bit, but it IS wrong to overdo it. It isn't necessarily wrong on a moral issue, but it IS wrong in the sense that it can eat up time, health, and precious moments in your life.
However, I don't think it's all bad! I mean, I was not at all guilty when I didn't know what it was. Then, as soon as it had a label, I felt atrocious. I believe in God and lust, but I don't think it should be condemned. There are women my age that are just now marrying or have been married for a year now. They don't get judged for having sex because it is within marriage. I can't help but think that if I am not indulging in sex, I should be able to release that sexual tension, especially at 19!
There is a reason for everything on earth; the stones, crystals, trees, water, animals, orgasms, feelings, religion, etc. Why not use it? It isn't horribly wrong to indulge a bit, but it IS wrong to overdo it. It isn't necessarily wrong on a moral issue, but it IS wrong in the sense that it can eat up time, health, and precious moments in your life.
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Everybody who has ever masterbates knows this feeling of guilt.
The reason is simple, you have thought horrible lustful thoughts about a woman or man you do not know or love, pleasured yourself to these thoughts and had an orgasm. FOr f**k sake it has nothing to do with being beside a woman or chemicals.
Masterbation is sinful pleasure, you're going to feel bad afterwards because you no longer have the desire to masterbate or the pleasure of an orgasm.
THink of a drug. You really want to take this drug and while you are high you are feeling great about it. Afterwards you feel bad as you realize that you have done something bad and that your soul will suffer as a result. No sh*t masterbation makes you feel guilty.
That is all.
The reason is simple, you have thought horrible lustful thoughts about a woman or man you do not know or love, pleasured yourself to these thoughts and had an orgasm. FOr f**k sake it has nothing to do with being beside a woman or chemicals.
Masterbation is sinful pleasure, you're going to feel bad afterwards because you no longer have the desire to masterbate or the pleasure of an orgasm.
THink of a drug. You really want to take this drug and while you are high you are feeling great about it. Afterwards you feel bad as you realize that you have done something bad and that your soul will suffer as a result. No sh*t masterbation makes you feel guilty.
That is all.
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