why do I feel bad after masterbating?

Guest over a year ago

What do u mean close? Lol

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Guest over a year ago

I find that after I wank I want to do it again now, however when I was younger I felt straight after as if I shouldn't have been doing it, I think it just gets better with age.

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Guest over a year ago

I guess it has to do with your upbringing and early childhood programming. You were probably told, directly or indirectly, not to play with your penis. So when you grow up and start playing with it, of course, you feel good while doing it, that's natural. But when the deed is over, you suddenly think back to what you were told subconsciously, that's why you feel guilty that you have done something wrong.

Relax, there is nothing wrong with you. It is normal. This guilty feeling should go away with time :)

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Guest over a year ago

i kinda feel bad about it cus i just wonder why i do it at all and i feel im like 20 years old now? and i still do it?

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random over a year ago

ok i figured it out. just you know (oh btw i'm a girl) how your like rubbing and you can't stop cause like it feels sooo good well you shouldn't do that. you should rub for like 5 times real fast then slow for 3 secs, watch porn to i got a great website it's free to it's called redtube, trust me that theory made me stop feeling so guilty

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Guest over a year ago

People are so out to lunch on this its not even funny.

First off, crazy religious nuts, go find a job, it's kind of sickening having such a trivial view of masturbation as if god hates you afterwards.

Same with all this "guilt" sh*t.

I'm nearly 100% sure that the OP's concerns are chemical related and not all this psychobabble BS above. A few others revealed the answers and that helped me understand my situation and I thank you, especially the guy who described the "Refractory period." Oxytocin, serotonin, dopemine. Its those chemicals in the body that are causing it.

***this post is edited by moderator *** *** inappropriate posting*** Please read our Terms of Use The refractory period is what it is.

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Guest over a year ago

Guys, I've been looking for answer to this dilemma for a long time now. I've noticed that after I ejaculate I become less social, not as interested in people or women, sometimes I'm even really grumpy and mean spirited. Sometimes I just want the whole world to go away basically. And you know what? I don't like being that guy. I like being an open person who enjoys people. When I don't masturbate I find I'm way more charming. I have better game with women. I'm also more willing to go out and try new things. When you lose sperm your testosterone levels go down. You lose a lot of protein that could have been recycled by your body into muscle. Your testes now have to kick into gear to make new sperm. Your whole body goes through this intense physical process. You are chemically changing your body. It's like a drug. Now I'm not saying its immoral or wrong. Thats for you to decide but maybe... just maybe... it's better to walk around with a loaded gun for a good duration of time. If you are responsible with it you just might be rewarded.... Think about did pre modern man have as much free time, privacy and access to pornography? I don't think so. Our ancestors had to compete for everything. We just have so many luxuries these days, and its confusing us.

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Guest over a year ago

okay I will :D

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Guest over a year ago

I used to feel like that when I was like 14, dont worry, it just stops being that way one day. It might have something to do with how much you masturbate. When I started, I was a machine, now I slowed down a bit and each time it feels great, no regrets.

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guest over a year ago

Right, Since i was about 9 Or 10, I first started masterbating, And then by the time i hit 12, i first had sex, Bit discusting i know but anyways, Now, im 16, and when i finish having sex, I feel like, OMG Why did i do that, im such a id**t, even if i really like the person i am having sex with, No matter who it is, Even after wanking over porn i feel the same, but then about 15 mins later, i feel normaly again.

I'll be ohnest, I have tried sex with a man and a women, and still get the same feeling.

Is this bad?

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Guest over a year ago

ok first of all...12...wow..second of all...men aswell...wow....and thierd of all is my answer.or statement. i get this feeling as well.im only 13 and i masturbate and ive always felt wierd after it.i only started this year but all the time i feel like im doing something wrong.its like a pregnancy test..how many different ways are there tyo pIss on a stick.i just feel like im betraying everyone i know's trust.it wierd.it may be my mum but my parents have nver asked me about sex or anything like that.im glad that they havent thoug.i cant imagine how awkwward it would be. it was awkward enough when my sister asked my if i like women.anyway i think it does have something to do with the fact that your penis isw in a hand and not in the other place it could be....depends i guess but i try not to think about it.

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the muslim over a year ago

Its not you its your nature you must be a good person let me tell u something masturbation is wrong dont listen to the other m****s on this tread no offense take my experience and believe me when i say its a disease!! just dont masterbate for a few days and then masterbate and then look ate your penis you will notice these wierd dots on it and you will feel more warmth u feel desperate when u see other women and etc just stop its a sickness of the psycia they dont tell u this they just say its good for the health and bla bla they dont mention the bad effects it brings for your mental health and also ur physical health why do u think fighters never do it or athletes ?

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righteous over a year ago

It's obvious, you've realized it is a sin, congratulations.

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Guest over a year ago

It is because it is a sin.

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alexander95209333 over a year ago

You may masturbation too much,so stop masturbating until you feel OK.