I don't think that a person should keep their minds on lustful thoughts. We do have these thoughts and that is why we are on earth, to correct them. Jesus did not succom to this type of impure thinking.
Personally, I feel worse afterwards and feel very guilty. Probably because my concsious is trying to tell me that I can do better than that. The more pure our thoughts are the better our life becomes because we are not in need of anything and are not controlled by obsessive desires that only use our energy.
Overindulgence in anything ages a person. I have seen people looking so health and young and then I saw them again eight years later and I could not beleive what I saw! They became aged and unattractive.
All of these people have had some type of addiction, whether it was use of alcohol or marijuana, or sex addiction.
I do realize it is very hard to cure an addiction, but some people don't even know they have an addiction! They think it is ok to do these things, because they are not taught by society what is right, becase society does not teach us this.
As long as we are slaves to our addictions, other people can make huge profits off of us! And keep us enslaved.
The TV and radio help to keep us enslaved and mind conrolled, while making billions off of our addictions.
Eventually we begin to distrust or dislike ourselves because we are afraid to be who we are, and that way the negative forces can easily conroll us!!!!
The best way out is to be as POSITIVE AND HAPPY AS YOU CAN BE and GET RID OF FEAR because this is how so called "Satin" can manipulate you. The darkness CAN NOT STAND IT when we are happy and content with OURSELVES! THINK GOOD THOUGHTS ONLY BECAUSE YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME YOUR REALITY...!
Personally, I feel worse afterwards and feel very guilty. Probably because my concsious is trying to tell me that I can do better than that. The more pure our thoughts are the better our life becomes because we are not in need of anything and are not controlled by obsessive desires that only use our energy.
Overindulgence in anything ages a person. I have seen people looking so health and young and then I saw them again eight years later and I could not beleive what I saw! They became aged and unattractive.
All of these people have had some type of addiction, whether it was use of alcohol or marijuana, or sex addiction.
I do realize it is very hard to cure an addiction, but some people don't even know they have an addiction! They think it is ok to do these things, because they are not taught by society what is right, becase society does not teach us this.
As long as we are slaves to our addictions, other people can make huge profits off of us! And keep us enslaved.
The TV and radio help to keep us enslaved and mind conrolled, while making billions off of our addictions.
Eventually we begin to distrust or dislike ourselves because we are afraid to be who we are, and that way the negative forces can easily conroll us!!!!
The best way out is to be as POSITIVE AND HAPPY AS YOU CAN BE and GET RID OF FEAR because this is how so called "Satin" can manipulate you. The darkness CAN NOT STAND IT when we are happy and content with OURSELVES! THINK GOOD THOUGHTS ONLY BECAUSE YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME YOUR REALITY...!
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reealy i feel bad to im a girl like only when im in the mood its all good but after that all the thoughts are like y did i even think that but the real reason we feel guilty is not cause some stupid doctor or a stupid mind study thing guys common sense im 17 i know and god forgive me even doe i dont deserve it its evil that is the truth evil bad thoughts and i hope i cauld stop every time u do it some thing bad happends or u feel ugly and ur not good its dirty and filthy y we do the devil gets to us we need to rebuke it and try not to sex with some one u love is 1 thing and u see how u dont feel as bad husbands and wives r 1 when ur married so it makes sense but what we do there is a lot of things we do thats bad but this is abomanation so i say ile stop i see how better it is when i stop but then i slip i swear i wont do but wile later i do and then i get on a roll in doing wring that is the one thing that mostly is my problem that can send me to hell so i have to stop but then i feel im lieing my self and god i need some one to pray 4 me lol cause hell is not the place for us so keep faith read up on it see the bad part is i know the truth of masterbation and i keep doing it so i will stop and i think u should consider what i say as i should read up on it the bible im gona start to read it againe more so dont think its crazy its truth for many will be called but few are chosen
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I feel bad after whakcing off myself and i believe its because it feels good and then right afterward men are not turned on anymore and we realize that we had just accomplished nothing. the only time i dont feel bad about whackin it is when i hold off for like a week at a time and do it jsut once to release all that built up sexual energy. Its ok though, next time just try and suppress the thoughts for as long as possible. To me whacking off is just like smoking cigarettes.
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When you mastubate you're releasing all this energy that has no where to go. However, during sex, the energy you put out is often returned to you by your partner.
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I feel really bad because of thhat. Also because im gay, and i feel depreessed after and bad how i am gay. I didnt chose it nd hav tried 2 stop but my urges win.....i feel guilty of wanking and my orientation :-(
i always tell my self its not ur fault being gay, i ddidnt chose nd stuff, but even then wanking is soooooo goood but feeeels bad after!!!
i wish i was straight.....those ppl dont know how luky they r lol!! U dont suffer the secret depression and sadness like me. Im only bloody 14 and thinking this :-( My life is ruineeed!!! GOD PLZ MAKE ME STRAIGHT!!!
dredin the day i willl hav 2 cum out in tears and embaressment nd guilt and regret.............. and start raisin my voice an octave and lower my shoulders for the first time in my life...not pretendin.........cant believe im writing this, I just hav 2 geet it out!! WHY MEE!! :'(
i always tell my self its not ur fault being gay, i ddidnt chose nd stuff, but even then wanking is soooooo goood but feeeels bad after!!!
i wish i was straight.....those ppl dont know how luky they r lol!! U dont suffer the secret depression and sadness like me. Im only bloody 14 and thinking this :-( My life is ruineeed!!! GOD PLZ MAKE ME STRAIGHT!!!
dredin the day i willl hav 2 cum out in tears and embaressment nd guilt and regret.............. and start raisin my voice an octave and lower my shoulders for the first time in my life...not pretendin.........cant believe im writing this, I just hav 2 geet it out!! WHY MEE!! :'(
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I think its because when you masturbate you use up all your dopamine (the stuff that makes u feel good), and so when u finish you have a diminished amount for steady release and this reduces our happiness?
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I think it's endorphins. Your brain relieces them when you climax, but after they just fizzle out.
I've been doing the knuckle shuffle since I was 13 (I'm near 20 now) and now its just a pain in the ass. After I've finished I feel...I dunno, sort of pathetic. It's GREAT at the time (and even that feeling is fading more and more every day) but after its just..."Well, that's that done with".
The only time it's good is when its been a good long time.
The only reason I do it is because it's habit. How sh*t is that?
I've been doing the knuckle shuffle since I was 13 (I'm near 20 now) and now its just a pain in the ass. After I've finished I feel...I dunno, sort of pathetic. It's GREAT at the time (and even that feeling is fading more and more every day) but after its just..."Well, that's that done with".
The only time it's good is when its been a good long time.
The only reason I do it is because it's habit. How sh*t is that?
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Its because you had a sexual drive, then once you bust you lose your sex drive to preserve sperm levels which after you think like wtf am i doing , i kno what you mean
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It's not because you're not with a woman, i feel bad when im with a woman sometimes to. Try using your imagination instead of watching porn. I know its hard, but maybe you respect women so much that you hate to see them degrading themselves to hundreds of thousands of men, and there's nothing wrong with that.. but in your imagination, the girl doesnt even have to be real, so no bad feeling.
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It happens to me too! i feel guilt all the time after i do it, but i think it has something to do with the fact that i have OCD. My OCD ties in with my moral values and i find it very hard to fight. I often feel sad for a day or so before i get back to normal. My mom tells me that it is perfectly normal to masterbate and that it is natural. Don't be sad about it if you can help it. If you can't try to focus on other things-hang out with friends, or get some exercise that always helps me.
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The reason why many of you feel bad is because masturbating is a shameless act. We humans are suppose to have honor and shame and not let these things overtake us. Its an act against the 3 major religions so you inwardly feel the shame after doing it. im not giving a religious talk here but think about it. If you feel bad inwardly after doing it, then isnt it a sign not to do it again?
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A lot of what that feeling has to do with is due to a hormone that is released into your body immediately following ejaculation. It can cause drowsiness, lack of motivation to a small extent, feelings of guilt and so on. It's very normal and should not last for very long following ejaculation. It seems to be the case that those who masterbate more than a few times a day ten have worse symptoms based on this. So if your punching the clown 4-5 times a day, cutting down and seeing if anything changes may be a good starting place toward figuring this out.
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I feel guilty too after wards.. i think it has to do with knowing im the only one out of my friends who does it.. and feeling different because of it..like i shouldnt be doing this at my age.. Theres nothing wrong with you.!.
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the reason yall feel guilty about masterbating is cause it is bad. in the bible it speaks about how our body is the temple of god. he was the one who create us and create men and women. he didnt create you and your self to have sex. he create a man and a women to have sex. but after marriage not before. masterbating is a feeling that the flesh needs cause your hormones are acting up but if you just learn how to control them and talk to god about your problem trust me you will never think about it again. in my experience i started masterbating since i was 6 years old. but it was cause when i was little i was touch by a friend. and ever since that day i always had to play with myself. when i grew older i only masterbate about once a week just so that i can feel good. i felt that it will fill my emptyness insidde of me. when i turn 15 i masterbated only two times and both those two times i felt so guilty when i was done. i felt like i let someone down i felt like c**p. since i felt that why i thought i guess i am doing playing with my self and so i had sex with this guy i knew. i felt even worest and then i start realizing that the reason i felt that way was because god was telling me that i wasnt doing the right thing. i grew up at church and i knew touching myelf and having sex before marriage was a sin but i still did it. the guilt inside of me made me change one day and realize that i dont need to touch myself or have sex just to make me feel happy. the one person who can is god. after that d i never ever touch myself or had sex. god is good and all you need to do is believe in him and trust me everything will come. he will and could help youwith your problems and addictions. he did it with me and he can do it with you.
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