I hope I'm to late, If your still dealing with this It's the holy spirit condemning us, telling us that this is wrong. God is putting thoughts in us and making us feel like that so we won't do it again. With enough strength and time spent with God and seeking his will, you'll over come this. You can live without masturbation, don't let it overcome you. I'll be praying for you and I'm going through the same steps, we will come out victorious. God still loves you! Do right by him so he can be proud and reward you greatly
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i always feel really bad and ashamed of myself.
ive been trying to stop for 2 years now but with no luck the longest ive stopped masterbating for is 2 months and then i caved.
Anyone have any advice????
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the reason is simple, you are under conviction from the lord. you watch porn,think about porn ect while you are doing it and all along you know its not right.. the bible says it is better to put your seed in the belly of a w**** than to let it fall upon the ground..i am also guilty of this as well i hope this helps
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i get this so badly. i'm christian so i already feel bad about it, most of the time i think it's disgusting but when i get the urge i can barely stop myself. worst of all i'm female and only pics of girls turn me on. i'm not gay. it has only started since my boyfriend and i started getting very physical. tbh i'm not comfortable with it, i'd rather not do anything at all but now that it's started i can't stop. he doesn't satisfy me because we don't actually have sex but what we do gets him going but not me. so i end up frustrated.
it upsets me that he watches porn (he didn't tell me but i found some on his computer) but how can i be upset with him if i'm doing it too? i feel ashamed and disgusted with myself but i don't know how to stop. it's making me too ashamed to practice my spirituality too.
HELP :/
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I know by writing it down on a piece of paper or a notebook that i stopped for about a month and then i stopped writing and i started again..
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i think its because you have produced semen but man who has sex after that they became sad so do animals because they produce so much semen and i think its called tristesse
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I feel guilty and bad after occasion masterbating. However, when I had sex twice in the same day with my girlfriend, I didn't feel any weirdness
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Every guy feels the same way(more or less..), reason is :when we get exicted, brain is being fed by neuro chemicals like dopamine etc. so we feel great, but then we ejaculate & rush subsides, levels of chemicals such as dopamine , testosterone falls. Brain is thrown out of bliss, so it feels bad. Also no satisfaction is there, as all energy is wasted, whereas our brain was hoping to procreate, we have cheated it and then our subconscious kicks in to make us feel guilty of the crime. So better avioid it. Trust me you will not feel guilty after nocturnal emission as it is natural way of body cleaning itself. So try to avoid masturbation,
Good Luck!
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