why do I feel bad after masterbating?

God is bloody fake get that fake BS out of here

i know right i started masterbating when i was young like 10 and in 15 know and it is sooooooooooooooooo boring to me now.............

it's ok to feel guilty i feel it aswell but as long as you have pleasure doing it, it's fine 

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guest111222333 wrote:

I used to all the time. Two or three times a day I would masturbate. I am pretty sure my dorm smelled like Johnson from outside. Then I got to the point where I felt sick when ever I was not masturbating. It was awful. I found Jesus. Jesus helps a lot because you have this super sized anthology of seriously hard to study books to study through to get your mind off your addiction and you are not going to be tested and given a job on what you learned, so there is no stress related to this coping mechanism that teaches you how to be human or even what super human is. (for those of you masturbating in seminary - repent you hypocrits - no seriously read James and write an essay why you need to be clean and holy to teach if you value your soul and your futures)

Anyway, even though I gave up masturbation I fall every once in a while and I still feel sick (maybe 2-5 times a year). It really sucks that I gave my self this addiction. If you have kids talk to them about masturbation and how it's a sin that will hurt them. If you do not believe in God good luck explaining how self infliction hurts everyone around you. If you do believe in God explain that God is afflicted by our sin and he is more worthy of our loyalty and love than any body times infinity, so we deserve to go to hell for sinning against him. Also, don't stop there but point to what Jesus did on the Cross and tell them that he did that to save us from his own wrath, so that his Justice might be served on him and his mercy might be given to us as a free gift to show us once and for all that his heart is the most beautiful.

I just woke up this morning after playing with my one eyed trouser snake yesterday and I felt sick. I am going to be 28 this month. I hate this addiction because I know like all addictions it is holding me back from the possibilities I have lost by indulging it. I found this forum and I shared my testimony. Don't be fooled. I am weak but God is strong and he works miracles for those who repent accept his mercy and follow him. Get to know who Jesus is. If you do not have a mentor read the book of Matthew in the Bible. It's important to start in Matthew, Mark, Luke or John so that when you read the other books so you have a context of the character of God. If you have time read all four. After that or even before you finish these you will need a spiritual mentor that takes their roll seriously if you want to learn the rest of the other book. You will at least need a concordance. I recommend John MacArthur's study Bible.

Anyway, I have said a lot and many of you are obviously unchurched. Remember two things: One you don't have control of your heart meaning you don't get to choose how you feel (you can only manipulate yourself with different situations and scenarios - some are sinful and some are not but if you are coping [masturbation is a coping mechanism] you need to determine what you are coping for and how to reduce the amount of stress on you and that may mean for some of you getting some sunlight and going for walks or hiking. It was for me. Also, you need to look outside yourself to beat an addiction. You are not going to beat this with will power. Your will is working against you as much as for you when you are addicted to something and you don't want to be paralyzed in a struggle with your self. Pray for help. Make it a clean and simple prayer and really mean it. Second avoid getting stimulated like the plague. Thinking about stimulating thoughts is the worst. I think that mistake I made yesterday is why I am writing to you right now). Jesus loves you and you can trust him to be who he says he is.

I can't say that with the same ultimate certainty about Ghandi, Einstein or even my best friend because we all fall short. Jesus didn't. Get to know him.

Anyway, for those of you who read this. Thanks for letting me write this to you. I would say something cheesy like I will pray for you but I don't know you. I know know how you feel. I don't know how God is going to use you, but he will whether you mean it for Evil or Good he will use you for his glory Genesis 50:20.

This is the worst, most propaganda-filled nonsense I have ever read about masturbation. Masturbation is not wrong or a sin.

In fact, the largest group of Catholic nuns recently publicly wrote about, and approved of, female masturbation, citing it provides great benefit to women. The nuns have been publicly reprimanded by the Pope, and the Vatican, but the nuns are holding firm ground on their position.

It's time to break away with the old beliefs that masturbation is wrong and a sin. Even the largest group of catholic nuns are saying masturbation is healthy. Don't believe me? Watch the June 11, 2012 episode of The Colbert Report interviewing Sister Simone Campbell. Watch this interview and make your own informed decision.

Cheers

Think about it this way. If you were living out in the wild on some remote island and couldn't find fruits, vegetables or catch animals for meat.

You're eventually going to have a very strong urge to eat, increasing significantly more with time, and the urge will eventually become overwhelming. You will get so hungry you will eat grass or dirt to make that feeling go away.

Sexual urges are very much the same thing and are just as powerful as our urges for food and water. Eating grass or dirt may not be your ideal choice for food, but if you haven't eaten in days it will be enough to make that overwhelming urge go away until you can find something better to eat.

Masturbation is the same idea. I won't say all, but the vast majority of people, prefer sex to masturbation. When sex is not available, eventually the sexual urge becomes overwhelming. Suppressing this natural urge is very unhealthy and leads to very unusual behaviors. Priests preach masturbation is a sin, but yet a large number of them go around molesting little boys.. now THAT is a sin no matter what your religion is.

The reason this happens is because your bodies muscles are relaxing and contracting after you finish. I remember this happening to me when i was younger and asked my doctor. the feeling is similar to when you stay in a hot tub for a long time. you get drowsey but instead with masturbation the feeling is instant so you feel down

I feel the same way, mabey its because im overdoing it. For me, it happens in bursts. Sometimes its 4-5 times a week. And the rare 6 times. Should i feel ashamed? Should i accept it? It ls a filthy habit, yet its invigorating. I would like help on reducing this number. =/

yeah....sure pal.

Probably because you're a shitty speller.

It is his conscience aka the Holy Spirit

yeah, i fell same. but i still tell myself its disgusting and bad afterwards :( 

I have my own question why when I'm having my time and watching videos after I cum I feel disgusted just by touching my self and I lose the urge why

Hopefully I'm to late, If your still dealing with this It's the holy spirit condemning us, telling us that this is wrong. God is putting thoughts in us and making us feel like that so we won't do it again. With enough strength and time spent with God and seeking his will, you'll over come this. You can live without masturbation, don't let it overcome you. I'll be praying for you and I'm going through the same steps, we will come out victorious. God still loves you! Do right by him so he can be proud and reward you greatly.