I am 24 years old. I am in a relationship with a guy for more than 4 years now. We are planning to tie the knot in next 2 years. We had decided to abstain from sex till marriage. But as he stays in another country and we get to see each other for only 1 month a year, we sort of lost control of our emotions. We recently made a trip to Greece islands and both of us got very drunk. We just remember part of the episodes, and as far as I know he fingered me and performed Cunnilingus. I am not very sure, but I think he leaked and I have a feeling that I touched his semen and tried fingering myself a little. I am so so worried now. It was one sad drunk night. We have never done this before and now it is 20 days since that happened. I am so worried if I can get pregnant because of it. I cannot do my work right at the work place. I cannot get more nervous. Please tell me if it is possible to be pregnant this way.
Hi Worried,
There's always a chance of pregnancy with any sexual contact but it seems unlikely from your description. You can't get pregnant by oral sex and even being fingered, sperm dies when it dries.
Viable sperm would need to get INTO your vagina, not just near it, for you to become pregnant.
If you want you can take a home pregnancy test now. Be sure to use ONLY your very first morning urine, wake up pee, for the best accuracy.
Good luck.