My husband makes up stories to discredit me and bash my character. He does this with family members as well. He lies about everything. I cannot believe anything he says. He does not stick to any job and was recently fired. He also is back and forth in different religions. He wants me to live in his house according to his rules and has a list of do's and don'ts. Examples I can't listen to Christian music or celebrate christain holidays. He has told me he owns my body and that my body is his biblicaly to do as he wishes. He had an affiar and blames it on me saying he does not feel love from me. He puts down things I say and tells me I am saying things wrong and out of context. He will even look words up in the dictionary and read deffinitions to me. He avoids any conflict between me and him and if I have a problem with him or we are in an arguement it is never resolved. If I bring up past issues to show a point. I am wrong and unforgiving. What is wrong?