Please help me, i recently walked in on my 13yr old son masturbating, i know this is normal and i'm not judging him except he was doing it on web cam for someone to see, I have recently found out that he has been doing this for a few weeks and men have been watching. He has become very depressed about it and have stopped. What should i do any advise please.
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Hi Sally,
I'm glad that you understand that masturbation by itself is normal.
The concern is why is he doing this. Have you asked him? I can understand that it won't be an easy conversation for either of you but it needs to be discussed. He may find it "exciting" and not consider any ramifications from his actions.
Hope it helps.
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I also find it really normal. My son also did it, but I was aware of the one very simple fact - my son is getting older, he is reaching his puberty, he is attracted to girls and he wants to explore. Children masturbation is not an illness - it is something that is perfectly normal and that every boy will do - sooner or later. Just because some of the parents haven't saw their kids doing this, that doesn't mean that they are not doing it. That is a huge mistake. Every boy does this, every boy explores his body and let's face one fact - they love to masturbate.
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