14 year old dating 18 year old, is this bad?!?!

noUSEforAname over a year ago

Ok, so I am 14 years old, a girl, and I am dating an 18 year old!!
Is this wrong?
We go to the same school, I see him everyday, and he drives me home somtimes, we have done stuff together but not gone ALL THE WAY, i dont wanna get pregnant or anything.. My older brother wants to kick the sh*t out of him, and hasn't even met him.
My ex boyfriend who is the same age as me, is telling me he loves me..I think maybe I should go back with him because he's my age..
PLEASE HELP ME I LIKE THEM BOTHA LOT..

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Guest over a year ago

I would think an 18 and a 14 year old would be at 2 very different points in there lives. He is about to graduate highschool and you are just beginning to start highschool. In the long run, I think you would be much better off sticking to someone around your age. Or at the most just a year older. Highschool is a lot more fun with someone you can have be with you the whole time, and go to Proms with you and experience for the first time with you things. Unstead of someone who has been there and done that. I dont mean sexual things either. I'd say your parents would be much happier with a younger guy too! Have fun, be young! But be safe!

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finest variation over a year ago

The first question is Why do you think it is wrong?

You both obviously like each other because you have done intimate things together.

I believe young teen girls love the attention and the maturity of older guys and physical sexual desires abound in our early teen years.

If you like him and feel comfortable with him, I would enjoy the relationship. You dont have to fall pregnant if you make sure he uses a condom and you can go on the pill.

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