Ok so I'm 14 years old and I get turned on all the time I masturbate, I have orgasms and all but it just doesn't feel like the real thing I mean I'm a virgin and I can't buy sex toys (dildos). I think I'm ready for sex but I'm just to scared.
U ARE NOT READY U TOO YOUNG JUST STICK WITH MASTURBATING AND MAKE HOMEMADE PENISES AND ETC.LOOK IT UP
Be carefully please, you could ruin your life, think about pregnancy, or you can get STD or HIV- AIDS, etc. Sex is for adults, Be a smart girl please not a loser.
You are not ready, because you are too young, try to play sports, read good books, help your mom at home, etc.
See my reply for Briana5 above. It is a quite detailed answer to this question.
All the best.
You're NOT ready for sex, trust me.
If you feel turned on then just hump your pillow; while watching porn videos. It feels good to masterbate!
If you feel turned on then just hump your pillow; while watching porn videos. It feels good to masterbate!
Yes u r very much ready, lets have safe sex.
We can have sex
The average girl has had sex by 13 in America and 11 in many other countries. You seem more mature than most and your body is telling you you ready. It's natural. I would love to show how to go slow and enjoy the first time like I was taught at 14. You will very much enjoy it. Let me know.
no she should wait till she fully matured physically and mentally like in the late teen years like 17 or 18 or it would be better if she waited til shes married. unless shes already having sex which i think she should stop bcus of all the consequences that could happen from having sex. that y she should just masturbate,its more safer and you cnt catch anything from that.
thats a shame
Im 14 an i get turned all the time too.i want to have sex but im scared that it might hurt if my cherry pops an in scared that my mom will flip out if i ever had sex an i also don't want to end up pregnant in just really scared
dnt have sex . sex it not that important you should not want to give something as precious as ur virginity to some boy who only want one thing from you,ur cookie. its alot of risks to having sex like getting std's,getting pregnant and being called bad names. sex should be performed by ppl who love each other alot and see themselves being with each other for a long time. just think ,once u loose ur virginity u cnt get it back and you will look back on that sexual act you did and be like why did i waist my first time on that loser and you will regret that for a long time.if you get sexual urges masturbate,it safer,u cnt get pregnant by it,and you cnt get an std from it. just think abt the down sides from having sex. im not trying to scare you for life by not having sex,just dnt have sex at a very young age like urs. wait a couple of more years or if ur dedicated til ur married. because trust me i know alot of ppl who wish they never had sex but i was too late they atleast got kids,or a reputation for doing it with a guy who had a bad reputation. .
I totally agree with kigobear...she is right, plzzz think abt it and dont get involved in any of such activity, u are wayy too young to do all that...please be careful :) Best of Luck....
I think it's safe to assume that I f your scared then you aren't ready. If you do decide to have sex, make sure you are being safe about it. Make whoever your partner is know it's your first time, make sure they will stop if you want to and not pressure you if you decide your done halfway through. Ask them if they are clean- no stds maybe their sex history if you want to know how likely it os they were exposed. And condoms. Important there.
Other ways to get off- Google it and don't go to those "top ten ways to-" or anything like it cause they are just trying to get noticed, not provide actual info. Shower head, electric toothbrush, homemade dildos like a brush handle, razor handle if it's smooth enough, toothbrush handle, end of a marker, ect. If it hurts then just try something smaller. Also don't rush, you'll miss out on all the fun stuff XD
And for the poor young girl up there who wasn't taught about female anatomy- you don't pop your cherry. What actually happens is that most of the time whoever a doing the inserting moves too fast and you rip the opening of the vagina. It IS NOT supposed to hurt. If you go slowly- and use lube- it shouldn't be horribly painful. Uncomfortable maybe but not painful. There's always exceptions but don't believe that your first time is supposed to hurt. It's not supposed to anything, except be awkward because that's what first times are.
Good luck.