You are 16 years old, and you want a baby?
What makes you think you are capable of being a good mother when your a kid yourself.
Where the hell are your parents.
What makes you think you are capable of being a good mother when your a kid yourself.
Where the hell are your parents.
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I am wondering WHY you are having sex with these guys & wondering WHY you are not getting pregnant? I had my daughter at 14 years old & she will be 16 this month. I was with 1 guy & got pregnant.
Why is your self-esteem so low or your judgment so poor, that your focus is why your not getting pregnant & not why are you sleeping around at your age?
I am not criticizing you. I am wondering what your thinking process is. I have personal experiance in the area of teen moms & sex as a teen & your on the wrong path. I talk very open with my 16 years old (BTW the dad did not stick around) she does not want kids anytime soonand she is NOT having sex. She has barely kissed a guy. Do you talk with your mom? If not, please talk with me or someone. You need a regular Gyno exam regardless, but you need counseling more than anything.
Why is your self-esteem so low or your judgment so poor, that your focus is why your not getting pregnant & not why are you sleeping around at your age?
I am not criticizing you. I am wondering what your thinking process is. I have personal experiance in the area of teen moms & sex as a teen & your on the wrong path. I talk very open with my 16 years old (BTW the dad did not stick around) she does not want kids anytime soonand she is NOT having sex. She has barely kissed a guy. Do you talk with your mom? If not, please talk with me or someone. You need a regular Gyno exam regardless, but you need counseling more than anything.
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to anyone who wants to no me and my boyfriend been together for a year ina have he came in me all thrue out the year and nuthing, nuthing ever happened until finally im pregnant by him!!!!!!!!!!!!! I kno 4 sure its his bcuz i never slept with one 1 else(MY FIRST) so yea it doesnt have to mean that somthing is wrong with you thats the name thing i thought but luk what happen and i REALLY WASNT EXPECTING THIS so dont get to worried but if you are just go to the clinic are your doctor ( they do have free clinics) 8) :-D
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Hi there, thanks for posting htis information on what to do. DO you have any tips on how to find a free clinic? I think a lot of girls don't quite know where to look!
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so my husband and i are 17 and 19 ( please people i really don't want to hear you complain i am here for advice remember)
and we have been trying to concive, We are finacally ready ,he is a marine and i am in the verge of graduateing, we have been haveing sex three times a day almost every day and he always comes inside me . I took a pregnacy test recently and it came out negitive. I was wondering first off if there were any signs of being pregnant i should know about so i could check. Two i was wondering if there was something wrong with my body am i unable to concive? or am i just to young?
advice would really help the both of us out he is stressed and so am i we both would really like to know if i am pregnant or not.
Thanks for your help.
and we have been trying to concive, We are finacally ready ,he is a marine and i am in the verge of graduateing, we have been haveing sex three times a day almost every day and he always comes inside me . I took a pregnacy test recently and it came out negitive. I was wondering first off if there were any signs of being pregnant i should know about so i could check. Two i was wondering if there was something wrong with my body am i unable to concive? or am i just to young?
advice would really help the both of us out he is stressed and so am i we both would really like to know if i am pregnant or not.
Thanks for your help.
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Ok people, she asked for advice about why she may have not got pregnant, not advice about why and when to have sex... This occurance can be for many reasons, some stated above. Generally there is a 1 in 5 chance of getting pregnant, next getting pregnant has to happen at the right time of the month for your particular case. Next the amount of sperm the man ejaculated has to be enough or healthy (sometimes wearing briefs can cause infertility or low sperm count). Next the more emotionally involved a guy is in the act the more he will cum and pull deeper from semen reserves pulling forward more and healthier sperm. So say these acts were acts of passion, not love and a long turn on time, you have a very active immune system and your vagina enviroment is extra hostile to sperm, it was at the wrong time of month each time, and/or these guys had a low sperm count; then you are more likely to not get pregnant. This does not
mean you won't though, and it does not mean you are immune fro
it, if all of these those factors are not in action, and conditions for pregnancy fall into place at the right time it could mean pregnancy for you.
Now just advice, I would get Birth Control for yourself just to make sure you don't get pregnant, because you said you are not trying. It would still allow the spontanity you like without the risks of pregnancy. (99.9% effective) if you don't like hormones or pills try condoms, not only do they offer pregnancy protection but also protect from STD's.
mean you won't though, and it does not mean you are immune fro
it, if all of these those factors are not in action, and conditions for pregnancy fall into place at the right time it could mean pregnancy for you.
Now just advice, I would get Birth Control for yourself just to make sure you don't get pregnant, because you said you are not trying. It would still allow the spontanity you like without the risks of pregnancy. (99.9% effective) if you don't like hormones or pills try condoms, not only do they offer pregnancy protection but also protect from STD's.
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There is only like a 12-24 hour period where you are ovulating and can get pregnant. Of those 12-24 hours, there is only a 20% chance you will get pregnant. The fact that ANYONE beats those odds is definately a miracle. I would not worry about being infertile. Plus you are young, your body is still adjusting.
FYI, if you only had unprotected sex a few days ago you wouldn't feel pregnant. In fact, you may technically not even be pregnant yet, even if the sperm met the egg and all that good stuff.
FYI, if you only had unprotected sex a few days ago you wouldn't feel pregnant. In fact, you may technically not even be pregnant yet, even if the sperm met the egg and all that good stuff.
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My mom lives about 45 mins. away from me and my dad is out of the picture bc he does not get along with my husband even though he signed for me to get married. Anyways I got pregnant when I was 15 and had my son when I was 16. I am now 17 years old my husband is 18 and it is hard as hell. Let me tell you. The economy is bad and it sucks really bad. My son is 14 months old and he is so precious but they have there moments. So if your having unprotected sex and you don't wont a kid then stop being ignorant please. Children don't deserve to suffer for our stupid actions. So if you don't want kids and you don't plan on keeping it if you do get pregnant then use protection jeeze!!!!!!!!!!!! For real just be smarter please!
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Oh and I am a terific mother thank you. I may only be 17 years old but I am probably more responsible and motherly than most of these full grown women out here.
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So i'm 15 years old & i have this boyfriend who i've been with for 7 months & after 3 months we've been together we've been having unprotected sex. I know i may be young but i don't care. I'm not trying to get pregnant because i know how hard it is for teen mothers because my sister's have been through it too. I don't understand why i'm not pregnant because we have sex like 6 times a day & we don't use protection & he cums in me. There were times when i thought i was prego but the text said negative. So i don't know why i'm not pregnant. Is there something wrong with me or him??
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I was the same way but as soon as I stopped freaking out about why Im NOT getting pregnant. Guess what I did get pregnant. Use BC even if you dont want to use condoms get on the pill or something you can get the pill without your parents permission too its easy. Go to the Free Clinic or Health Department near you and ask for someone in Family Planning. They ill make you take a pregnancy test and if it comes back negative they will decide which BC is right for you. If you are pregnant they will confirm it on paper and let you decide when to tell your parents. I really hope this helps and if you have anything else you would like to ask please feel free to private message me ok!!!! Good Luck hun!!! :-D
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My husband and I have been together for about 2 and a half years and we have only used a condom 2 or 3 times. He has came in me probably 8 times. Why haven't I gotten pregnant?
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My best advice to you and your husband is to. 1. You start taking prenatal vitamins 2. If either of you smoke or drink alchohol stop immediately bc it decreases the chances in both female or male. 3. Keep and eye on your period and watch for your ovulation days. Count your cycle days too. Heres a website that can help you and its so precise it can tell you when is a better day to conceive a boy or girl. Its great and has been helpful to many I know. ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed I hope this helps out hun. Let me know how it goes!!!!! :D For some reason it wont let me link it but I still wrote it anyways. I hope you find it helpful!!!!
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I think you all need to look at yourselves. Children wondering if they have fertility problems is ridiculous! The reason you aren't pregnant after three times of unprotected sex is clearly becuase you don't know about ovulation and your most fertile period. Takes way more than that.
To all the people encouraging these kids - look at yourselves too - GROW UP and when you are serious about bringing a child into the world look into it and do your research.... PATHETIC >;)
To all the people encouraging these kids - look at yourselves too - GROW UP and when you are serious about bringing a child into the world look into it and do your research.... PATHETIC >;)
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Alright to start i wouldnt worry that you arnt pregnant. My husband and i have been having sex for 6 yrs not really trying or not trying. Im 29 now and we just started activley trying for a baby.
** i think you need to start using protection. My sister did just what your doing and thought she had the odds beat by being selective and so on. WELL if you are serious about having that baby you need to wait use protection. My sister has herpes, HPV even w the vaccine and the hpv caused cancer. After six surgeries she has tons of scar tissue and when she met her hubby the tried to have kids she did have a girl but because of the scar tissue labor wouldnt let her cervix dialate so they went in a opened it. Her labor was so painful even w epidural she fainted three times from scar tissue tearing. I also have a friend who caught some nasty std that is silent no symptoms and it destroyed her fallopian tubes. Im not saying all this to scare you but if the guys your having sex w already got a girl w a baby they have had unprotected sex before. I dont see why so many teens want a baby just wait. I have got to do so much more than any of my friends that had kids.(concerts, clubs minus stretch marks, travel, wear a bikini, i go where i want when i want, bought a house and started a biz) trust me just wait! Watch 16 and pregnant very close and u will see just how unhappy they r. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed **
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