and agreed that if you are 18 and your boyfriend is only 16 you bothe need to talk about how you would handle it becoming parents so young and all that you would put your baby through because you bothe have so much growing up to do try and discuss your options as to how long you have to try... U dont want to have to raise the baby yourself barely scraping by on what little the government gives to live on... I dont have a problem with people haveing government assistance if you need it I do however feel it is wronge to try and live off other people because you dont want to try and make a better life for yourself... You could never really be financially ready for a baby unless you are rich and most of us aren't but every little bit helps but you can make better choices and it be easier... I completely understand the wanting to have a baby part because I also want to have a baby but I want more for my baby than just getting by or my family or my husbands family being able to say they have a right to what my baby can and cant do becuase they support it... just think about it a lot if it does happen its an unplanned miracle but it could be so much better for all of you if it was a planned miracle that you are more prepared for... Good luck to bothe you young ladies I hope all goes well~ JM
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this whole thing gets me so mad you guys talk about having babies like it's a new pair of shoes, not even in your 20s yet. go get some education children should be the last thing on your minds. if you're not trying to get pregnant use a condom and stop worrying. worry when you're ready to have kids you're a little girl. and 18 year old, why are you going out with a baby? and you want a baby too.. it's all just babies raising babies. such a shame.
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80% of the women that actually want to get pergant get to wait circa 2 years before they actually get pregnant. It's not that easy as you think to get pregnant, but you can never be sure. To get pregnant, you need to have sex the 14-15-16-17th day after that your period started.
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Ok, you keep saying you "aren't trying to get pregnant", but yet you ask questions like "am I not fertile? Is there something wrong with me? Is it my age?".. Little girl, get your life. You should be happy that you AREN'T pregnant rather than worrying about if you can even take care of a child. Don't expect to post something like this and not get lectured by someone. I will admit that I, too, started off being sexually active at a young age, BUT I was smart enough to use protection because I knew a baby was not for me at that time. If you don't want the guy to use a condom, then you need to be on birth control. My brother got 6 different females pregnant (oldest kids are 5 y/o, 3 weeks apart, 2 different women, you do the math). So I advise you if you don't want to end up lonely and caring for a child for yourself and putting your "baby's daddy" on child support, you need to make sure they wrap it up. IJS.
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If you have insurance, call the insurance company and they can give you some names of OB-GYN. Or, open up the phonebook, or call the local hospital and ask for the OB-GYN phyisicans. It is easy to find one. The hard part is finding one you like!
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