I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. He is my first love and serious boyfriend we trust one another completly and have a great relationship. I am 24, and am still a virgin. I always told myself that I wanted to wait till I was married and he is fine with that (even though it is extremly hard at times). I also want to marry a virgin but I now realize the likelyhood of that is very low. I want to give my virginity to someone who I know is a virgin as well (which I know my boyfriend is). We have talked about marriage but neither of us is really ready for that I want to finish school and he wants to be financially ready to take on that challege. But lately I really want to have sex but am scared that afterwards I will regret the decision of not waiting. I really don't want to be a 30 year old virgin. Is this normal can anyone relate?
Well you certainly can only be praised for waiting. Good for you for taking a stand. Although I am not a virgin (lost mine at 16, stupid) I wish I had waited for my first time to be with my husband. Although I don't wish I had waited until Marriage, I wish I waited for him. However, if I had waited my life would have taken a different path and I most likely would not be with him so I can't really regret anything.
If you feel you are ready, then your ready. You're not too young, you won't be looked down upon. However, only you know your values and what you want your life to be like. Also, if he's been with a few partners, ensure he has no STD's prior to engaging in any act with him. Then if you do decide, be safe!
Good luck!
If you feel you are ready, then your ready. You're not too young, you won't be looked down upon. However, only you know your values and what you want your life to be like. Also, if he's been with a few partners, ensure he has no STD's prior to engaging in any act with him. Then if you do decide, be safe!
Good luck!
I agree. Waiting is good, because it ensures you will have the maturity to really enjoy the experience. Waiting is good, because it means that you will likely be with someone you love and who loves you.
I waited until I was 22, not because I was waiting for marriage- I don't plan on getting married- but because I didn't want to have sex because I am supposed to be sexual, as a 22 year-old female. When I did have sex, it was because I wanted a whole and complete union with the person I love. And let me tell you- it was mind-blowing. There was no pressure and only goodness. I'm glad I waited. But I'm glad I had my first experience when I did.
I waited until I was 22, not because I was waiting for marriage- I don't plan on getting married- but because I didn't want to have sex because I am supposed to be sexual, as a 22 year-old female. When I did have sex, it was because I wanted a whole and complete union with the person I love. And let me tell you- it was mind-blowing. There was no pressure and only goodness. I'm glad I waited. But I'm glad I had my first experience when I did.
I would strongly suggest waiting!! I am 23, just got married and very much believe in waiting until you are married! My husband and I were both virgins - there are guys out there that are, I promise. It is so incredibly special to know that he is the only man I will ever share that bond with! Good luck with your decision.
You're right. It's so much more special if you wait until you can be sure you're the only one for him, and he's the only one for you. I also strongly believe in only having sex after marriage.
real virgin????? never ever fingers inside or extras?????? how many times have you played with??? I find dificult to have hymen at this time, but I trust if you say.In that case is a great situation and dificult to find.Maybe you can get some benefit for the waiting time and choose your opener at the same time.How is your bf???? how do you look like????? If visit spain let me know of interested private me.Dont wait to 30 if you have to do it do it now as much 25.Sure your bf is not gay????