to whomever im 30 years old and my tubes are tied and i have three wonderful children and im having hysto 2morrow i no its for the best because i have really bad fibroids and i little sign of ovarian cancer but why do i feel like somethings being taken of my woman hood anybody please help me feel like this procedure is alright also im worried abouit my sex life w my husband after will it get better.or worse. thank you kindly.
I can understand how you feel at 30 yo, to have your uterus removed. but it is for the benefit of your health, so dont worry.
if doctors know you still want to have sexual intercourse they will make sure your vagina is secured at the top end, so that penetration is still possible.
Hubby will probably have to go careful though to begin with, until you both get used to any new feelings you experience.
hopefully, your clitoris will still be sensitive to arousal, and you can always get hubby to play with that, and suck your nipples, and give you pleasure that way, until intercourse is possible.
you should be able to reach your climax and have your orgasm, with out intercourse, so that you can have a release of sexual tension , if you need that, by clitoral and nipple stimulation.
you maybe losing your womb, but you are also losing having periods.
it means sex can be carefree after that.
if doctors know you still want to have sexual intercourse they will make sure your vagina is secured at the top end, so that penetration is still possible.
Hubby will probably have to go careful though to begin with, until you both get used to any new feelings you experience.
hopefully, your clitoris will still be sensitive to arousal, and you can always get hubby to play with that, and suck your nipples, and give you pleasure that way, until intercourse is possible.
you should be able to reach your climax and have your orgasm, with out intercourse, so that you can have a release of sexual tension , if you need that, by clitoral and nipple stimulation.
you maybe losing your womb, but you are also losing having periods.
it means sex can be carefree after that.