On dec 4 me and my boyfriend were making out. We did not have sex but he did ejaculate on my belly. A few seconds after I washed it off with water only and then I also washed my private parts. im scared that if there was any sperm left on my hand I could be pregnant. On dec. 29 i had some spotting and I am scared it could have been implantation bleeding. The last few days I have had stretchy discharge and today I feel some cramps on the left side. I think my breasts look bigger but it might just be in my head. Im also exclusively breastfeeding although there are some nights when baby sleeps 5-6 hours. I heard stories when people became pregnant while breastfeeding and in just so scared. Based on this situation could I be pregnant? And by the way we never had sex after I gave birth.
As you already have a baby,you know that you would have to have penetration into your vagina by the penis and he would have to ejaculate inside you.What little (if any) sperm was on your hand would not be of concern,especially if you used a wash cloth to clean yourself.
As for the discharge,spotting and cramps,I would suggest you see your doctor.If your breasts feel and look bigger,remember you are breast feeding and they will feel bigger as the breastmilk collects.