A few das ago, my boyfriend and I were fooling around and we tried having sex. Granted, it didn't last long for a few reasons.(It hurt to much for the both of us, no condom{Mistake, I think so}... Ect.) He didn't make it the whole way in, because it was causing the both os us alot of pain. Seeing as we're both virgins, we don't know if this is normal or not. So that's my first question. Is it normal for it to really hurt both the male and female during the loss of virginity?
My next questions regard possible pregancy and actual loss of virginity. Even though he did not enter completely, it was enough to cause me to lose it, at least I think. He did not ejaculate(precum or completely), and It was probably only about 2-3 inches inside. Is it possible that withough the knowlage of either of us, that precum did escape, and if so, would I be pregnant with it only being 2-3 inches in? Also, does it count?
My final questions are reganding the after effects. He's been pleasuring me other ways for a while, and to both our suprise, I did not bleed. Is this something I should be worried about? Also, it's been roughly 4 days since, and theres been an itching sensation just inside the point of entrance. It's not always there, but it's very irratating and distracting. Is this a nomal sign? Finally, is it normal to have drastic mood changes? I've been swinging from one mood to another ever since, without good reason. I'm nowhere near my period (As my last one ended not long before we tried.), and I do not know if having sex brought this on.
As a last thought, a friend told me that after you end your period, theres a span of about 10 days where theres a very VERY slim chance of you getting pregnant. I am about Two weeks off it now, and only eight days off it when we tried. Is this true, or do I still have a chance of becoming pregnant regardles of time spent on or off my period?
Thank you for for your help, these questions have been bugging me, and none of my friends have answers. If you have an answer to any of my above questions, please reply. Thank you very much, once again.
My next questions regard possible pregancy and actual loss of virginity. Even though he did not enter completely, it was enough to cause me to lose it, at least I think. He did not ejaculate(precum or completely), and It was probably only about 2-3 inches inside. Is it possible that withough the knowlage of either of us, that precum did escape, and if so, would I be pregnant with it only being 2-3 inches in? Also, does it count?
My final questions are reganding the after effects. He's been pleasuring me other ways for a while, and to both our suprise, I did not bleed. Is this something I should be worried about? Also, it's been roughly 4 days since, and theres been an itching sensation just inside the point of entrance. It's not always there, but it's very irratating and distracting. Is this a nomal sign? Finally, is it normal to have drastic mood changes? I've been swinging from one mood to another ever since, without good reason. I'm nowhere near my period (As my last one ended not long before we tried.), and I do not know if having sex brought this on.
As a last thought, a friend told me that after you end your period, theres a span of about 10 days where theres a very VERY slim chance of you getting pregnant. I am about Two weeks off it now, and only eight days off it when we tried. Is this true, or do I still have a chance of becoming pregnant regardles of time spent on or off my period?
Thank you for for your help, these questions have been bugging me, and none of my friends have answers. If you have an answer to any of my above questions, please reply. Thank you very much, once again.
o.k.. one question at a time.. i'll do my best to answer them for you..
is it normal for it to hurt.. well yeah. especially since it's your first time, i'm sure you weren't lubricated well, being nervous and all.. i know most women say it hurts for the first few minutes. keep in mind that your tense and again, nervous. next, precum. precum can escape any time without the man knowing. so there is always a possibility of getting pregnant. you need to discuss birth control before you decide to try again. safe is always sexy!!! the mood swings.. i had them. it's a big step to decide to give up your virginity. you'll only do it once! i remember i was 15, and i did care about the guy, and we're still friendly when we see each other now, i have no regrets.. but after the first time, i cried for hours and didn't really know why? it's very emotional. the itching could be from the friction, could be the start of a yeast infection. if it doesn't subside, get some yeast infection treatment at the drug store, or go see your dr. The whole after period "safe period"... don't rely on it. you CAN get pregnant at any time of the month!!!! some people say depending on your cycle you have a lower risk of becoming pregnant one week to 10-12 days afterwards. Like i said.. don't take the chance! Definately get on birth control or use condoms ALWAYS!!!! I hope I helped!!
is it normal for it to hurt.. well yeah. especially since it's your first time, i'm sure you weren't lubricated well, being nervous and all.. i know most women say it hurts for the first few minutes. keep in mind that your tense and again, nervous. next, precum. precum can escape any time without the man knowing. so there is always a possibility of getting pregnant. you need to discuss birth control before you decide to try again. safe is always sexy!!! the mood swings.. i had them. it's a big step to decide to give up your virginity. you'll only do it once! i remember i was 15, and i did care about the guy, and we're still friendly when we see each other now, i have no regrets.. but after the first time, i cried for hours and didn't really know why? it's very emotional. the itching could be from the friction, could be the start of a yeast infection. if it doesn't subside, get some yeast infection treatment at the drug store, or go see your dr. The whole after period "safe period"... don't rely on it. you CAN get pregnant at any time of the month!!!! some people say depending on your cycle you have a lower risk of becoming pregnant one week to 10-12 days afterwards. Like i said.. don't take the chance! Definately get on birth control or use condoms ALWAYS!!!! I hope I helped!!
Hey girl. I would like to tell you that losing virginity isn't something you are going through alone, which means that it isn't only you who is in pain, but your partner whom you have chosen, also. It's a tough process, and you both participate in it. Also, mood changes after sex are quite normal, but not too drastic, Also, concerning your itching problem, I don't know if it could be caused by that, but I would recommend you to go and see a doctor about that, because you never know what it might be. Let us know how it went.
Couple days ago, I tried having sex with my boyfriend for the first time. It hurt too much for me. And he didn't make it the whole way in.
But my vagina's hole is getting bigger. Is there anyway I can make it smaller again ?
Thank you for your help. If you have an answer to any of my above questions, please reply. Thank you very much.
But my vagina's hole is getting bigger. Is there anyway I can make it smaller again ?
Thank you for your help. If you have an answer to any of my above questions, please reply. Thank you very much.
8-| no,i dont think its normal for the male to feel pain also,i've never heard that before
actually it can hurt both the male and the female.... if the female is dry and the penis is trying to be inserted it will hurt especially if your a virgin.... it will aso hurt him aswell..... as theres no lube there for his penis to slide in.... it causes him to get a friction burn to..... if your not ready dont ,,, remeber what the law actually states.. sex is meaningful.... a part of a rlationship where u show them love a different way..... it hurt me the first time and i bled and it did hurt to pee after but after a day i was fine... the second time was uncomftable but ok.... ive been with my boyfriend a year and we have sex all the time theres no pain... it will get better wish u all luck xx
i hope some one reply me on this and give me some Idea,
when me and my girlfriend had sex at first time, she never bleeded. and i am sure that she was virgen. is it possible not to bleed, specialy when it is your first sex, and you are vergin???!!!!
i would be so glad to have the answer.
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when me and my girlfriend had sex at first time, she never bleeded. and i am sure that she was virgen. is it possible not to bleed, specialy when it is your first sex, and you are vergin???!!!!
i would be so glad to have the answer.
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Yes, it is possible to not bleed...your girlfriend probally was a virgin, but didn't bleed because her hymen was already tore/broken...althought it's very rare that your hymen tears or break it is possible...Your hymen can tear from too much exercise or streching or more...good luck with your girlfriend and I hope this helped alot ! :-D
It should be noted, that not all women necessarily have a hymen. This is an unfortunate truth for many women in parts of the world that believe it's a crime for a woman to not bleed their her night of marriage. It's perfectly normal to not bleed.
I Really Hope Someone Replys Back To This But The Other Night Me And This Guy Started Fooling Arounds And He Wanted To Have Sex But Im A Virgin & I Didnt Want To I Was Scared Of Losing My Virginity But He Told Me If You Only Do It Once That Your Whole Grows Up Is That True Because Ive Never Heard Of That & I Didnt Know If He Was Being A Guy & Just Saying It So Id Have Sex With Him Or If Its True Plz Let Me Know!!!!