Last night my boyfriend and I were drunk and getting ready to fall asleep, we were in the spooning position and he was trying to have sex with me and I was willing but he was drunk and it was dark he kept trying to put in my anus, and then he finally penetrated my vagina, but he was close and we stopped, then went back to spooning then we tried having sex (unprotected) in that position and he was fumbling and thrusted into my anus thinking it was my vagina and it was still in my anus then he thrusted again quiet hard, the pain was excruciating, i literally jumper up out of bed and ran into the bathroom, I felt like i was going to throw up and poo at the same time, I went into the bathroom and i checked and i was bleeding and its consistancy as in the flow changed at first it was very like little showed up on the toilet paper and it got worse but i just kept pressure on the area and it finally stop and it kind of spotted throughout the rest of the night for like 1-2hrs more(guessing) and this afternoon i had to go no.2 and i bled a little bit but I am just paranoid something is wrong, I am going to the doctors tomorrow, and my boyfriend, are each others only ever sexual partners he was absolutely shattered when he found out what he had done, because on of our agreements for sex was never to do anal, because the thought of it makes us so ill to the stomach. My anus is so sore, like its uncomfortable pain now, not as bad as it was during the moments afterwards but yeah... Should I be worried about something serious???
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He caused tearing which is normal for anal sex if the rectum is not lubed or used to such activities. The bleeding, urge to have a bowel movement and the urge to puke are all reactions to this. It's all normal. If bleeding persists seek the help of Dr. serious damage may have been done.
On a side note I would sit down with your boyfriend in confidence and ask if he would really want to have anal a lot of men like it and tell their girlfriends they don't because the female doesn't like it. I am not saying do it I am saying find out if he wants it that way you can make an attempt to guard yourself from it if drunk again.
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