My boyfriend and I,some time ago tried to engage on anal sex,but eac time he put his penis just a few,few inches inside my anus I felt like an urge to evacuate!I can't remember if i had evacuted that day already,but it's discomforting so we stopped...How can i prevent this urge from happening?
Thanks in advance for the reply! :-D
Thanks in advance for the reply! :-D
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I don't know but I could only imagine I'd feel the same way (I'm a heterosexual male). I guess you could take a laxative early in the day to make sure you are truely 'empty' but make sure to take it early enough that it's effects are worn off.
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You have 2 choices, you can take an enema before having anal sex, it will rinse your bowels; if you are planning any kinky games with your partner ( I do lol ), then I suggest take and additional enema or as many as you need until you feel super-clean. Option 2 is to sit and try to evacuate previously, that will ensure at least that you are partially "clean", in the event that the anal sex extends for a long time, he may stimulate your inside muscles and you will feel also the urge to go to the bathroom, just tight your sphincter as much as you can and slowly remove him, is not that bad, well you both enjoy any of the above options, and please do always have "safe sex'.
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Hey, the rectum is made to "want to evacuate" and we've been conditioned to do so whenever we feel that pressure inside the inside sphinter.
You'll want to retrain yourself to ignor this signal, if you want to continue this behavior.
Enemas and laxitives are not recommended.
You can do almost the same thing naturally by eating more roughage, salads and citrus.
But you're trying to fight mother nature's instinct here, and it take a while to train for this.
Good luck, whatever you two decide to do.
You'll want to retrain yourself to ignor this signal, if you want to continue this behavior.
Enemas and laxitives are not recommended.
You can do almost the same thing naturally by eating more roughage, salads and citrus.
But you're trying to fight mother nature's instinct here, and it take a while to train for this.
Good luck, whatever you two decide to do.
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I've been masterbating anally for years, and just had anal sex for the first time a few days ago. I didn't really feel like that at all.
I'm thinking it's because you've never had any other anal stimulation other than 'evacuating' so your body feels the pressure and instantly thinks it's time to go.
Try masterbating for a while, I find massaging the top of the inside of the anus (before you get to your other spinchters) particularly pleasurable, and then just keep going in as you get comfy. Also, I suggest laying on your back, it'll relax you more and contribute less to thinking you need to go. Remember to tell your partner to go slow though. Anal sex is great when done right, but any pain is a red flag that something's wrong. If you're a female, I should warn that your partner might put a little pressure on your cervix which hurts like hell the next day. Just be careful of pain, you can really mess yourself up having anal sex because some people follow a misconception that it's supposed to hurt. It shouldn't, and it should even be really pleasurable. I hope this helps!
I'm thinking it's because you've never had any other anal stimulation other than 'evacuating' so your body feels the pressure and instantly thinks it's time to go.
Try masterbating for a while, I find massaging the top of the inside of the anus (before you get to your other spinchters) particularly pleasurable, and then just keep going in as you get comfy. Also, I suggest laying on your back, it'll relax you more and contribute less to thinking you need to go. Remember to tell your partner to go slow though. Anal sex is great when done right, but any pain is a red flag that something's wrong. If you're a female, I should warn that your partner might put a little pressure on your cervix which hurts like hell the next day. Just be careful of pain, you can really mess yourself up having anal sex because some people follow a misconception that it's supposed to hurt. It shouldn't, and it should even be really pleasurable. I hope this helps!
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