Hi
I am 28 , married for 2 years . and , I am still a virgin. initially in first yr of mariage, I used to enjoy foreplay and then at the time of penetration i used to chicken out .
me and my hubby know each other since 19 years...and ours is a ' fairy-tale' love story....we being lovers for 17 years before marriage . and being very religious, never tried sex before marriage .
slowly i found that i have NO urge for sex.
Then, as time passed ,my hubby kind of slowed down on the frequencies coz he wanted me to take time and not feel pressured from him .
But, now i m afraid coz my clock is ticking and in a coupla years i wud like to be a mom...I still don't feel any urge in real life , although i fancy a lot about sex in thoughts.
My husband is an extremely patient and understanding guy , who tries his best to make me happy .
Nowadays, i have become such that no type of foreplay excites me at all. and my hole is so little that I wonder how can a penis enter it.
What should i do ???? I am geting very depressed day by day because of this problem .............
I am 28 , married for 2 years . and , I am still a virgin. initially in first yr of mariage, I used to enjoy foreplay and then at the time of penetration i used to chicken out .
me and my hubby know each other since 19 years...and ours is a ' fairy-tale' love story....we being lovers for 17 years before marriage . and being very religious, never tried sex before marriage .
slowly i found that i have NO urge for sex.
Then, as time passed ,my hubby kind of slowed down on the frequencies coz he wanted me to take time and not feel pressured from him .
But, now i m afraid coz my clock is ticking and in a coupla years i wud like to be a mom...I still don't feel any urge in real life , although i fancy a lot about sex in thoughts.
My husband is an extremely patient and understanding guy , who tries his best to make me happy .
Nowadays, i have become such that no type of foreplay excites me at all. and my hole is so little that I wonder how can a penis enter it.
What should i do ???? I am geting very depressed day by day because of this problem .............
This seems like something that could very well be psychological in nature!
I would highly reccomend seeing a doctor about this, maybe even a psychiatrist. This can be associated with some depression, and there are medications that can bring your sex drive back to you.
This is soemthing you need professional help with.
I would highly reccomend seeing a doctor about this, maybe even a psychiatrist. This can be associated with some depression, and there are medications that can bring your sex drive back to you.
This is soemthing you need professional help with.