i already have a child, 4 yrs old now, and we've been having unprotected sex almost everyday with my husband. i still don't want to have another baby, though my husband does, but still he respects me that's why we are doing withdrawal. My last menstruation was weird. regularly i have a 28 days cycle and 7 days menstruation, but this month i only had 4days menstruation instead of 7days. at my 1st and 2nd day it was a spot of very light pink then 3rd, and 4th day it was red like my usual blood. After my so called menstruation, i'm having cramps everyday. this thing already happened on my first child, but now i don't know if i'm getting pregnant. still haven't used any test coz i thought it is still early to test one. Please help me with this guys. Thank you!