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I need advise from all of you. I never had intercourse with my boyfriend but I have oral sex with him. the thing is I dont want to lose my virginity because I want to lose it when I get married. but when I had oral sex, there was slight bleeding but it stopped after 20 minutes and my tummy was paining bit. so I want to know what is happening with me
Im not sure if i understand where the bleeding is coming from? Anyways, If you are having oral sex with him, you are no longer a virgin. Sex is sex, any way. Oral, anal, and vaginal. If you gave him oral sex and his penis entered your mouth; hence oral sex, then you are no longer a virgin. if he gives you oral sex, then you are no longer a virgin. Neither is he. I'm not sure why you would be bleeding after oral sex or why your stomach would be hurting. I would advise you to see a doctor if you feel it's necessary.

Good Luck.
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u are still a virgin u lose it by having vaginal sex.you have had sex so its a sin but ur still a virgin
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"Its a sin"? Oh I don't think you should bring that stuff here!!



But you are right about being a virgin, you are "technically" a virgin until a penis enters you.
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Ok, they could be right. i guess it's all in one's opinion. i was always taught that virginity, by definition is someone who hasn't had any type of sex. and if you have sex, then your not a virgin-is what i was taught. and if you have oral sex, then you're not a virgin, hence the name: (oral "sex") i get into these discussions all the time, and lots of people believe that you dont lose your virginity, and then lots of others believe you do, such as me, and many doctors and specialists that i have consulted.

So, don't take my advice, i can't answer this for you. it would be better to listen to the other posts, because there's a majority there.

well, good luck! :>
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