i was 18 when i had my first boyfriend, we never had real sex actually, we only spent time masturbating together and then we broke up, i decided to move on and i met this guy who i told i have never had real sex before and we had decided to have sex, it got to a point i couldn't bear the pain and so he stopped the penetration, and i also didn't bleed or felt any much pain after that. i never had sex with any guy until after a year, and when he wanted to go inside of me it was so painful, like i just want to loose my virginity,it was so painful that i told him i dint wanna have sex again, so he stopped. the thing is my virginal shows that a penis has tried entering, but i cant even finger myself, cos anytime i try i feel this sharp pain inside of me. i really do not know if i am still a virgin or am just having some sexual problems, i am only 20 years old.
please, what do you think about this?
i need to be of the best to my boyfriend cause i don't want him to cheat on me
need your reply as fast as possible
Have you ever managed to finger yourself when your alone?
If his penis went into your vagina then you're not a virgin, if it didn't then you are. It's as simple as that.
The more worrying thing about your post is that you think you have to perform for your boyfriend as you think he'll cheat on you otherwise. If you think your boyfriend is that shallow and you think sex is a tool to control a boyfriend then you may want to reconsider your relationship as that is not a healthy way to approach it!
I am with a virigin right now. How long did the pain hurt? What did you take for the pain?