Myself and my boyfriend have been together over 3 years...but has recently left.  His reasons for leaving is that "we drifted apart". I know he struggled with depression in the past and was on medication for it. However this past Feb we went on a trip to Flordia and had a wonderful time. In the months after the trip things changed. He was very short with me and moody....and then that changed and it wpuld spend a lot of time in bed. He still went to work but other than that he would spend a lot of time in bed. I tried to get him up and ask him whats wrong and he would say " nothing Adam" or "everything Adam" but I could never get any more than that. After he broke up i learned that he stopped taking his meds b4 our trip and after coming back going back on them without visiting his doctor..which he hadnt seen since Oct.His reasons went from we drifted apart to i need time to work on myself and that we would both be better off. I trird yo get him back to see his doctor or to get counselling but he would not. He admits to having a communication problem..and says his depression is a small reason why he is leaving.

 

He had no family close by and very few friends. In fact in our 2 years living together none of his friends have even visited. His mother came to town to help him move so i managed to get a few hours without him around and i explained the situation. She also informed me that he used to cut himself and has never been good at talking. He would hide in his room and cover his face. A behaviour that he continues...when we argue he hides under blankets and cries. 

 

I want to try and move past this relationship however i am worried about him. What should I do?