Me and my gf was fooling around for a bit. I had pre cum on my finger although i let my finger rest for a bout a few seconds but i can assure you my finger was dry by the time i fingered her vaginal lips. Plus i only fingered her around the vaginal lips. Can she get pregnant by these circumstances? I'm really nervous.
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Hi. It's good that you're being cautious and thinking about the potential risks associated with sexual activity. When it comes to pregnancy risk from pre-ejaculate (pre-cum), the situation you described is generally considered to have a low risk of pregnancy, but it's important to understand all the factors involved.
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Pre-Ejaculate Fluid: Pre-ejaculate itself may contain sperm, though in lower quantities than ejaculate. The presence of sperm in pre-ejaculate can vary from person to person and even from one occasion to another.
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Dryness: You mentioned that your finger was dry by the time you touched your girlfriend's vaginal lips. Sperm typically does not survive well outside the body and quickly loses viability when it dries. If your finger was indeed dry, the risk of sperm being active and capable of causing pregnancy is significantly reduced.
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Location of Contact: The risk of pregnancy is generally higher with direct deposition of semen or pre-ejaculate near the vaginal opening or inside the vagina, where sperm can travel up the reproductive tract. Contact around the vaginal lips (labia) with a dry finger, as you described, is less likely to result in pregnancy.
While the risk in your specific situation seems low, it's important to remember that no method of pregnancy prevention (except for total abstinence) is 100% effective. If you and your girlfriend are sexually active or planning to be, it's wise to discuss and use reliable methods of contraception to effectively prevent pregnancy and also consider protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
If your girlfriend is concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, she can take a pregnancy test if her period is late or if she experiences symptoms that worry her. Pregnancy tests are widely available and can provide peace of mind.
In the future, for both peace of mind and responsible sexual health, it's a good idea to become informed about and use effective contraception. This can include condoms, or hormonal birth control.
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