my husband doesnt wanna have sex with me is totally making me feel insecure. i no longer feel pretty or atractive .... help me i dont know what to do or think..we constantly fight because i think he has someone else...does anyone know whats up .. i look forward for your comment thank you
Hi:
I'm sorry to hear about your problem. It may not have anything to do with you at all. Studies show that erectile dysfuntion is common with men on methadone. This may be why he is reluctant to have sex with you. This could be a great source of humiliation and frustration to him. Is this a real possibility? If so, perhaps you can find ways to get him to open up about it. You might be able to comfort him and find other ways for the two of you to find pleasure with one another. I have a good feeling about this. Of course, I don't know anything else. I am convinced, however, that ED would cause him to withdraw from you as he has done. Goo luck....Let us know if and how you get him to open up to you so that you can help other women in your situation and perhaps other men too.
I'm sorry to hear about your problem. It may not have anything to do with you at all. Studies show that erectile dysfuntion is common with men on methadone. This may be why he is reluctant to have sex with you. This could be a great source of humiliation and frustration to him. Is this a real possibility? If so, perhaps you can find ways to get him to open up about it. You might be able to comfort him and find other ways for the two of you to find pleasure with one another. I have a good feeling about this. Of course, I don't know anything else. I am convinced, however, that ED would cause him to withdraw from you as he has done. Goo luck....Let us know if and how you get him to open up to you so that you can help other women in your situation and perhaps other men too.
zayra21, my husband and I have been on methadone for 4 yrs and he can not have sex either, and yes it does cause men not to feel sexually aroused, with women its total different it doesn't bother women the same way, just be patient with him, it is very hard on men. We have tried viagra, and some herbel remedies but none of them worked. If you have a strong marriage you will make it through this!! Hope this helps... mechelle2649