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hi...i wanted to ask u all that me and my fionce had sex 2 times in a month and in both the cases we had unprotcted sex but i dint feel the ejaculation inside...when i felt that i was about to ejaculate...i took my p**** out and was relaxed outside...what are the possibilities of her being pregnant as she is not having her periods for more than 4 weeks...which is abnormal in her case......can anyone plz help me?
Scorpion,

If she is 4 weeks late sounds like you are a father. From you letter you sound under 20 years old. My advice to you is try to talk her into an abortion so you have a chance at life.

I used to think having sex as long as you you did not cum inside was ok. Well my girlfriend got pregnant. Thank god she had an abortion!!!
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what is the procedure of abortion?? and what are its side effects???

can a baby form in 4 weeks time???
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Celebrity
495 posts
WOW slow down.
You are scared i can understand that, unprotected sex always has a risk of pregnancy. She is 4 weeks late. Yes she could be.
But she needs to do a test. Worrying will only make she period even later.
When i was 17 i was 3 weeks late. I wasnt pregnant in the end, but worrying made it worse.
Go an get a test an take it from there

Good luck :-)
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you bet im scared....i dnt know even abt the tests of pregnancy....
can u suggest a test ???

what else we can do to avoid having child at this stage???
can pills work???
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Celebrity
495 posts
Go to a chemist. There is a lot to choose from. They are very good. They tell you what to do, but basically you girlfriend wees on the end an within a few minutes a blue line will appear. Blue line says yes you are pregnant.
Read carefull some are sligthly different. They can be used days after you have missed a period.
The morning after pill is probably to late now.
There is other pills you can have which terminate a pregnancy, you need to see a family planning person or a doctor.

how old are the both of you?
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well i m 28 and she is 22....
we r planning for a test today and will see the doc 2mrw....

btw...thnx for the advice and support...

nything more u like to suggest..??

still cant understand how it happened.....
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Celebrity
495 posts
Good luck.
She might not be!!
Let us know tho
xx
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yesterday she had HCG urine strip pragnency test but it didnt showed that she is pragnent...but for the safe side...we will consult the doc today...

can nyone tell me that in initial stage....what is preferred...urine test or blood test????
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i guessed nobody replid....hmm...

well just wanted to inform that we had the same urine test from lab and it turned out to be negative too....

and the best of all...my fionce is having her periods from yesterday :-)

i guess the delay was because of the first time sex and the tension of it...

but i would advice everyone to use condoms just to be on the safe side...

thnx for ur support....bye
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Scorpion,

You being 28 years old and do not understand about pregnancy tests is a very bad thing. I used to not use a condom and my girlfriend got pregnant. She agreed to an abortion. That saved me. Awhile latter me and her discovered that we can not stand each other. I almost made my life very hard. You got lucky this time. But I hope this scared you enough into always wearing a condom. It did me. :-P
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Celebrity
495 posts
Wolfman
you seem to have an issue. An thats fine if it helps others. But
Please remember we are here to help people. We dont now anything about these people an how their lifes have been (how they were brought up) I wasnt told anything by my parents an had to learn it all myself.
School didnt tell me much too.
This person not knowing how to use a pregnancy test..... How do you know if they can read or if they are in a different country to the launguage they speak. I try an explain things very simply incase of this. Also when people are scared an panicing they dont think of the ovious. If things arnt just as the instructions say so, then its worrying.
Its always nice to talk to poeple as you get a different view on your problem an we can be a shoulder to cry on.
Thats what this sight is all about.

Scorpion...... This is not ment for you. Or ment to affend.
Im so glad you an your girlfriend are ok an things turned out ok for you

:-D
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