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I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now, at first we used to be able to have sex all night with no problems on my end. About a month ago I noticed I couldnt get it up in the morning, but I just thought it was because I was too tired from the night before. Well it started happening more and more frequently, now the past 3 times I havent been able to get it up after the first time. It would become semi hard then just limp off when I went to go put the condom on.
She was over here today, and after the first time we took a 20 minutes break and I fell limp when we were getting into it, so tried another break and another, went on like that for 4 more hours. Nothing in the end, just a half limp erection.
I'm 22, I exercise 5 times a week, eat healthy, I dont know what my problem is. She's super supportive about it but I irritates me.
I dont get to see her too much because she doesnt go to the same school as me, so I was thinking it could be performance anxiety or something. I really dont feel anxiety or stressed at all. What the hells my problem??
Wow, you used to be able to go all night?? That's pretty impressive. Most guys I know can really only come once. I know I could make my boyfriend come once in the morning and once at night, but even if I played with his penis throughout the day he wouldn't be able to come.

Maybe your penis is exhausted? I'm imagining you would have come a few times when you "have sex all night", that's quite a feat and maybe this is just your body's way of telling you to slow down and give it a break? Ask her to give you head and see if you can maintain your erection then perhaps.
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I'm having the same problems, I used to be good for a few hours minimum maybe 3 or 4 orgasms now I have one and my erection is gone! I've tried a few herbals but they havn't done much.

The only thing i have done is had 4 or 5 drinks so that the first erection lasts longer and forgone oral for me, also you can practice different techniques that make sex last longer.

GL
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Scorcher,

The american doctors would tell you it all in your mind. The Chinese doctors would tell you have started to exhaust your sexual battery. You did it from too much masterbating and too much sex. Waking up without an erection is the first sign.

My advice to you is first. Stop ejaculating so much or you will be impotent before you are 30. Learn to have sex and not ejaculate. For every 5 times you have sex only ejaculate once. This takes some practice.
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This may be one of the most ridiculous statements I've read in this entire forum.
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When you are 22 your sex life should be great. American doctors will say it is all in your mind. But this forum is filled with young kids all having the same problem. Ninja, if you have a better way for him to get better I would like to hear in. Instead of just negative comments. If he is having trouble getting erection at 22 and not even waking up with morning erections. Is it really hard to believe that impotence could hit him by 30?
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this is a ridiculous statement, having frequent orgasms from sex OR masturbating will not make you go impotent, thats not true at all.
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do you take drugs or drink alcohol a lot? if so this could be your problem.......alchol thins the blood thus acheiving (if you drink on a regular basis)premature impotencey.drugs well they just completly mess with your body,its a proven fact that exstasy gives people impotency after prolonged use.im not implying your a waster if you dont take drugs or drink a lot it could be a whole lot of diffrent reasons.maybe your exshausting your self or just having too much sex...my advice is leave it for a couple of days then see if the problem persists if so then.......see a doctor about it.
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Impotent by 30??? Are you serious dude????? Men can masturbate frequently for their entire life - this is NOT the problem. You really need to do better research before giving your 'expert' advise!
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I too suffer from bad performance, but mine is rather random...rarely do I perform how I'd like, and I'm sure most men feel the same, but I have sex to the tune of 5 minutes or less...and that's if I can even get hard.  I've looked at many of the drugs online, and if they even work, I've read that many will get you hard instantaneously, but increased use over time will mess up your penis more than it already it...able to get hard even less, or maybe not even at all.  I don't COMPLETELY suffer from ED everytime, but I can agree for the sake of viewers that it's absolutely nothing to brag about.  Others suggest Prozac or others, which is an anti-depressant that is said to help treat ED in small doses, but that too messes with your penis over time, and it doesn't fix the problem...what's to be happy about, given a man-made drug, if I'm still performing terribly?  Ideas?!?!?!?  I'm WAYYYYY too young, or so I thought, to be running into these issues at 23.  If you thought no one else had the same problem, you're dead wrong.  There's other guys out there, like me, who too need help with this.  I know it's more common than we men would like to admit, but it's still incredibly emotionally draining.

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Wolfman is either an online troll trying to get a reaction or he clearly doesn't understand the issue, and should not contribute to this discussion. For guys like Scorcher and I, this sh*t isn't funny...it's incredibly emotionally draining, and there's little it doesn't affect. At work...while having sex...while in school...in the car...wherever, there isn't a single moment of the day you don't think, "Why can't I be like every other guy? Able to sexually satisfy a women?!?!?!" You want to almost tell her, "I'm not good enough for you...to find a man, not a little f*****g boy like me, and have fun, since I can't." It's terrible. Terrible.
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**"I'm not good enough for you...go find a man, not a little f*****g boy like me, and have fun, since I can't." It's terrible. Terrible.**

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Jeez! You people an your "problems"... f**k! I am 33 years old and have never had sex. Not even once. Every time I get anywhere close I get so nervous my f*****g penis retreats to my god damn liver. I've lost multiple girls I've really liked and even been in love with because I can't get aroused AT ALL around them in any shape or form. By myself? No problem! And I'm not gay! Add a girl? And I'm f*****g Mr god damn Bean all of the sudden.

Meanwhile, "Boo hoo...I can't f**k for 5 straight hours anymore...I'm feel so lost..." f**k YOU! Watch the love of your f*****g life, who's told you she loves you back and spent endless romantic nights together, walk off to some penis face douche bag solely cause he can get it up and give her what she wants after she's gotten bored of waiting for your sorry ass to even ONCE get hard for her.THAT is pain...you fuckers don't even know...
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Man I don't know get her to do her damn Job!!!!!!!!

 

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damn, i can come 7 times but with break every coming, it took me all night also.
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