I'm 18 years old and I recently lost my virginity with a girl. 3 times we tried to have sex and I had problems getting an erection at all. Second and third time I somehow managed to get an erection but to about 80%... When I masturbate its ok but now that i think about it its not super hard. I exercise and eat healthy. Does anyone know what the problem is? I'm really losing my confidence here
Hi Pandi,
Anxiety on all accounts. Now you're afraid you can't get fully hard and it makes it worse.
Relax. It's NORMAL for a guy to have trouble the first several times having sex.
Hope it helps.