Kevin B wrote:
I agree with this answer... for a long time I didn't think I could cum and thought it was the right guy but it only turned out to be the right move. & YES discuss it with her before trying anything. I had a guy spank me during sex and he dealt with blue balls for the rest of the day! Being aggressive instead of playful can cost you your relationship!
Kevin B wrote:
yes most woman do not orgasm. but also it depends upon the girl and what she seems arousing or what she likes. for example if she likes things ruff like biting and scratching and hair pulling then she might get an orgasm if your force full and aggresive with her it will stimulate her more possibly bringing her to a climax. i hope this helps.
Don't bet on this advice. Most women DO NOT appreciate things ruff... Don't assume she'll orgasm if you are forceful. It's a more sure bet that she'll be turned off and kick you out of bed.
Now, if you speak with her first, and the two of you decide together to try something, within limits, and have a "safeword" to call it off and stop at a moment's notice, that's different.
Yes, most women do not orgasm. But any woman CAN, given the right environment, attention, patience and considerate partner. Force does not equal sex or love for women. Many men make that mistake.
I agree with this answer... for a long time I didn't think I could cum and thought it was the right guy but it only turned out to be the right move. & YES discuss it with her before trying anything. I had a guy spank me during sex and he dealt with blue balls for the rest of the day! Being aggressive instead of playful can cost you your relationship!
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To make her "cum" or ejaculate you must stimulate the Gspot and yes it is real. to do so isn't easy but many people have posted video on the internet as to were to find it. And as to her not having an orgasm during sex, try some foreplay and try to "eat" or lick her vagina and penetrate her with your tongue. Also many times you will find that a woman will outlast you in bed. If you do in fact ejaculate before her practice your endurance on your own time. And many people may try costumes and even role playing. Try some different places also... im not saying go into public but someplace that is different she may like getting a rush and that would help her to a climax. im not saying my advice is right but i may just help. and don't let your sex life effect your relation ship, sex is just one of the many outlets to love. try snuggling her or making her breakfast. you can base a very close and happy relation ship on things other than sex you know.
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You need to find the g spot! Try putting a pillow underneath her butt while she's laying face up. This makes it easier to penetrate deep and reach the g spot. That position makes me squirt like crazy.
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Kevin B wrote:
I wouldn't doubt on what you said. SOme women do like it rough. I am one who prefers it rough. Girls who like it rough tend to be more into things like bondage. it can bring excitment to it and cause them to be even more aroused. Just the though of my boyfriend putting a dog collar on me and chaining me to a bed turns me on greatly. But you need to know what your women likes before you know exactly what you should doKevin B wrote:
yes most woman do not orgasm. but also it depends upon the girl and what she seems arousing or what she likes. for example if she likes things ruff like biting and scratching and hair pulling then she might get an orgasm if your force full and aggresive with her it will stimulate her more possibly bringing her to a climax. i hope this helps.
Don't bet on this advice. Most women DO NOT appreciate things ruff... Don't assume she'll orgasm if you are forceful. It's a more sure bet that she'll be turned off and kick you out of bed.
Now, if you speak with her first, and the two of you decide together to try something, within limits, and have a "safeword" to call it off and stop at a moment's notice, that's different.
Yes, most women do not orgasm. But any woman CAN, given the right environment, attention, patience and considerate partner. Force does not equal sex or love for women. Many men make that mistake.
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Just do your best work, if she doesnt cum don't worry about it.I'm sure you've made girls cum before, not your fault her vagina is broken.
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Rhythm is key when having sex with a woman. Sometimes nice slow long rhythmic strokes go a long way. I couldn't make my girlfriend orgasm for a year and a half until recently. Just today I made her do it 11 times in less than an hour trust me rushing won't get you there, patience will.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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my girlfriend never cum but she happy with it. sometime i cant cum either. we stress a litle bit . therre is nothing wrong, it just not the way. some people belive fast and hard is make ur girl cum but it is wrong. my gf alway ask me to go as slow as i can so she could feel it. she said fast just make her hurt even though my size is just average. dont ever watch porn and copy from it. do what you feel for it and it true to ask ur girlfriend what to make her feel ! the common spot is her ear, neck and right below her neck. gentle bit it, and dont ever bit her tit, it just pissed her off cuz it hurt as hell. or sometime let her going down on you and moan some sound for her, pretend if needed. every girl do like to make their man happy. if u happy, she happy. you stress and try to make her cum, it never come true. it is not just physical but phil also. try to talk dirty too.
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i think that helps out alot cuz ur going deep and slow and some times its better to go slower then faster
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She was never cumming, she just stopped faking it. No girl can cum in 10 min takes like 15-20.
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At first try to tempt her mentally by love words,then warming touch.finally get the time to give her hard.try it!
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Take my advice!!! It's great advice and I would know because I'm a girl and always have an orgasm during sex!
1. Four play.... Don't expect to jump right into things and get great results. Girls aren't like guys. It takes a little touching and kissing to get us ready.
2. Let her be on top.... About 99% of my orgasms are with me on top.
3. Tell her to grind back and forth. Do not bounce! Iv never orgasmed that way. Start out slow and she will feel the sensations getting stronger and shell know when to go faster and grind harder until she cums.
oh and a piece of advice for you.... When she's on top grinding, let her do her thing! Don't grind with her, don't move ur hips! Don't do anything! And this is why.... When I'm on top and I feel my sensations and I'm getting closer, if you move you will throw her rythem off and there goes the sensations guiding her to an orgasm and shell have to start over. That is no fun. So just sit back relax and let her do all the work :)
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IM HAVING THE SAME PROBLEM.. BUT the problem is my partner told me i have to know how to finish by only making love without playing with my clit. i love my partner how can i solve my problem? pls i need ur help i dont want to loose my partner.
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