The problem I have is that we don't have a bath anymore,we ripped it out some time ago and we now only have a shower.
So I guess I can still work on the advice already given.
My predicament is that I'm 44 years old,and I have never had a girlfriend because of my slight phimosis.
Yes,I'm a virgin i'm ashamed to say.....
:cry:
But,I can pull my foreskin back almost all the way back before it gets a bit painful,and then I have to stop.
When flaccid I could just probably manage to pull the foreskin over the head of my penis....although I'm also ashamed to say that I
have a small one when flaccid, but the girth is impressive when erect!Maybe the girth is the reason why I have this ailment....
But as some people would say,size does not matter.
If I did pull the foreskin all the way back with a lot of effort mind....I am afraid that it won't go back again.
When erect though, it is then I have problems.Although when I do some foreplay,I can get aroused and maybe pull it back most of the way,before
turning painful.Maybe it could be possible to have casual sex with a girlfriend,and try not to force it too much.
But as was said before,I could follow bambi's advice in her first message and use oil,etc....but as we have no bath, I will have to do what I can in the shower.
This is why I have no girlfriend,as I'm afraid that sexual intercourse might be difficult and painful for me.
Although I'm fairly happy with my indisposition...as it doesn't really bother me.It's just a nuisance that's all!!
I got jealous of other boys when I was younger,who could pull their foreskin back with no trouble....I just shyed away from doing it.
:(
So I guess I can still work on the advice already given.
My predicament is that I'm 44 years old,and I have never had a girlfriend because of my slight phimosis.
Yes,I'm a virgin i'm ashamed to say.....
:cry:
But,I can pull my foreskin back almost all the way back before it gets a bit painful,and then I have to stop.
When flaccid I could just probably manage to pull the foreskin over the head of my penis....although I'm also ashamed to say that I
have a small one when flaccid, but the girth is impressive when erect!Maybe the girth is the reason why I have this ailment....
But as some people would say,size does not matter.
If I did pull the foreskin all the way back with a lot of effort mind....I am afraid that it won't go back again.
When erect though, it is then I have problems.Although when I do some foreplay,I can get aroused and maybe pull it back most of the way,before
turning painful.Maybe it could be possible to have casual sex with a girlfriend,and try not to force it too much.
But as was said before,I could follow bambi's advice in her first message and use oil,etc....but as we have no bath, I will have to do what I can in the shower.
This is why I have no girlfriend,as I'm afraid that sexual intercourse might be difficult and painful for me.
Although I'm fairly happy with my indisposition...as it doesn't really bother me.It's just a nuisance that's all!!
I got jealous of other boys when I was younger,who could pull their foreskin back with no trouble....I just shyed away from doing it.
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Hi Lone! Phimos is the TOTAL lack of ability to pull back your foreskin over the head of your penis! It sounds like you don't have that problem though! So can you pull the foreskin just under the glans? When you decide to loose your virginity, this wont be a problem! I think you might have either been told something - that leads you to think that there is something wrong with YOU! There isn't! This IS you! Remember Maturbation is TOTALLY different that the act of SEX! So when the time comes, this will be different for you!
Our biggest sex organ is our brains! So when you feel "defective" and feel like you are a "lesser person" then this WILL play a HUGE role in your sexual health! You have no problem getting aroused! And there is no foreseable reason for your first time to be a negative occurance! I will ask this of you, as I ask women - How do you feel about having SEX?!!! Do you think you have hangups or a nervous about the action itself, OR perhaps being with someone that is used to other men and that she would compare you?
You can use my "technique" in the shower as well, the only reason why I mentioned Epsom Salts - is that they are VERY good for softening the skin and warming up the skin on the penis! so you can still do similar in the shower! So jut keep it warm and warm up the oil well in advance! The BIG thing is to keep it nice and sensitive and IF it hurts then that's it! NEVER push it further then you need to! Also IF you have TOTAL problems with retracting your penis over the glans, then I would suggest seing a urologist! You might even need a circumcision!! But when you are older this can bring its own set of problems! Have you been able to keep the area clean? As in not too much Smega build up etc! And have you ever had an infection under the foreskin - as this can leave scar tissue - impeding you being able to pull the skin back! Also know that the Frenulum is there for a reason - to protect you from pulling the foreskin back further than it is supposed to - just like the frenulum under our tongues!
I would suggest, 1st trying to do this in a warm shower, give yourself about 2 weeks, see if there is an improvement - which many men have told me there is! And IF there isn't perhaps make an appointment to see a urologist! And at the same time really start thinking about how you feel about loosing your virginity and having sex! As far as I am concerned a Virgin should NEVER be upset about BEING a virgin! To have sex is one thing, but to make love is another! It is SO easy to HAVE sex! But yet it is a LOT to make love! And I truly believe that other than religious reasons, MAking Love is a Emotional, Spirtiual, physical and mental journey! And why shouldn't you wait for that right person! THAT said, there is such a thing as waiting for the unatainable!! As in a dear friend of mine - a guy - that I have been good friends with for over 30 years keeps waiting for this girl he and every other guy - in highschool - was infatuated with! We were talking about how he can't find anyone to love etc etc. I said to him "You are 45 years old and still holding out hope that ****** *******. will come back into your life and say "I've been waiting for you for 30 years! Take me now!" I said "It AINT going to happen!" He then called me a few weeks later, ready to marry a lovely lady from Mexico to stay in the country!!!!!" I was SO surprised about this, but then I said to him "Do you like her or care about her?, his reply was yes!" And I thought to myself "He has been waiting ALL of his life for a girl that he will never bee with, and now there is this lovely lady, kind and gentle NOT anywhere near as "hot" as his dream girls, but she will NEVER cheat on him, she will never make him feel bad about himself!" So now they are officially dating and he is HAPPY! I even offered to be his Best Woman!!! ;-) Because my friend is FINALLY happy! And hopefully you will get this too! You have to look at WHY you have been resiliant to BEING some one! It could answer more about your feelings about sex and relationships than it could about your problem with your foreskin! Does this make sense?
Our biggest sex organ is our brains! So when you feel "defective" and feel like you are a "lesser person" then this WILL play a HUGE role in your sexual health! You have no problem getting aroused! And there is no foreseable reason for your first time to be a negative occurance! I will ask this of you, as I ask women - How do you feel about having SEX?!!! Do you think you have hangups or a nervous about the action itself, OR perhaps being with someone that is used to other men and that she would compare you?
You can use my "technique" in the shower as well, the only reason why I mentioned Epsom Salts - is that they are VERY good for softening the skin and warming up the skin on the penis! so you can still do similar in the shower! So jut keep it warm and warm up the oil well in advance! The BIG thing is to keep it nice and sensitive and IF it hurts then that's it! NEVER push it further then you need to! Also IF you have TOTAL problems with retracting your penis over the glans, then I would suggest seing a urologist! You might even need a circumcision!! But when you are older this can bring its own set of problems! Have you been able to keep the area clean? As in not too much Smega build up etc! And have you ever had an infection under the foreskin - as this can leave scar tissue - impeding you being able to pull the skin back! Also know that the Frenulum is there for a reason - to protect you from pulling the foreskin back further than it is supposed to - just like the frenulum under our tongues!
I would suggest, 1st trying to do this in a warm shower, give yourself about 2 weeks, see if there is an improvement - which many men have told me there is! And IF there isn't perhaps make an appointment to see a urologist! And at the same time really start thinking about how you feel about loosing your virginity and having sex! As far as I am concerned a Virgin should NEVER be upset about BEING a virgin! To have sex is one thing, but to make love is another! It is SO easy to HAVE sex! But yet it is a LOT to make love! And I truly believe that other than religious reasons, MAking Love is a Emotional, Spirtiual, physical and mental journey! And why shouldn't you wait for that right person! THAT said, there is such a thing as waiting for the unatainable!! As in a dear friend of mine - a guy - that I have been good friends with for over 30 years keeps waiting for this girl he and every other guy - in highschool - was infatuated with! We were talking about how he can't find anyone to love etc etc. I said to him "You are 45 years old and still holding out hope that ****** *******. will come back into your life and say "I've been waiting for you for 30 years! Take me now!" I said "It AINT going to happen!" He then called me a few weeks later, ready to marry a lovely lady from Mexico to stay in the country!!!!!" I was SO surprised about this, but then I said to him "Do you like her or care about her?, his reply was yes!" And I thought to myself "He has been waiting ALL of his life for a girl that he will never bee with, and now there is this lovely lady, kind and gentle NOT anywhere near as "hot" as his dream girls, but she will NEVER cheat on him, she will never make him feel bad about himself!" So now they are officially dating and he is HAPPY! I even offered to be his Best Woman!!! ;-) Because my friend is FINALLY happy! And hopefully you will get this too! You have to look at WHY you have been resiliant to BEING some one! It could answer more about your feelings about sex and relationships than it could about your problem with your foreskin! Does this make sense?
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Hi bambi!! Sorry for the slow response,as I don't seem to get much time to do everything these days.
I just wish there were more hours in the day.....aaagh!!
Anyway,on the subject of phimosis,I think I can pull my foreskin just under the glans when it's flaccid.
A little trickier when erect though.In this case I might have to force it back a bit,but I'm afraid that after retracting it,I won't be able to get it back.
The idea of circumcision sounds soooo painful,I couldn't bear myself to go through this procedure.Oooooh!
But when I feel brave enough,I am tempted to use your technique in the shower though.It seems the better option!! :)
I am quite fussy about the cleanliness of my penis too.I have never had any problems with it apart from my ailment of course.
I also haven't had any infection under the foreskin,and it seems okay so far.
So,I'm fairly happy with the health of it.
Another thing I want to add is for other men of my age is to check your testicles now and again when they are sagging and hang loose.
This way is easier for checking for any lumps or bumps in your testicles.My father died from prostate cancer in 2007,and I still miss him dearly.
He was a lovely father,and was always there to help me out in any way he can.He had chemotherapy at first,but the treatment only lasted a certain time,and couldn't
have any further treatment because of making him very ill.If only he had one more session,the cancer would have been killed off entirely.
He had 99.9% of the cancer pulled out of him.I couldn't believe what my mum and dad said about the result,So close to 100%.
Of course,that .1% had been building up very slowly year after year,and inevitably the cancer got hold of him again.
It was so sad to see him pass away in his sleep.He was 79 years old! So close to being an octogenarian!!
I would have loved him to live a further few years.....so sad :cry:
So, if any blokes are reading my message, please check your testicles every now and then....if there is any change in them like lumps or anything out of the ordinary,
go and see your doctor about it.For now,my testicles are okay and I'm pleased with the health of them.
As for your male friend whom you have been friends with for over 30 years,I loved that story you told me there.
What a fabulous result!! Awwww,I feel the love coming on already bambi!!
....and yes, it did make a lot of sense!!
By the way bambi what do you do for a living then? Are you a doctor or what?
You seem to give very good advice.....thanks again for the help.
I just wish there were more hours in the day.....aaagh!!
Anyway,on the subject of phimosis,I think I can pull my foreskin just under the glans when it's flaccid.
A little trickier when erect though.In this case I might have to force it back a bit,but I'm afraid that after retracting it,I won't be able to get it back.
The idea of circumcision sounds soooo painful,I couldn't bear myself to go through this procedure.Oooooh!
But when I feel brave enough,I am tempted to use your technique in the shower though.It seems the better option!! :)
I am quite fussy about the cleanliness of my penis too.I have never had any problems with it apart from my ailment of course.
I also haven't had any infection under the foreskin,and it seems okay so far.
So,I'm fairly happy with the health of it.
Another thing I want to add is for other men of my age is to check your testicles now and again when they are sagging and hang loose.
This way is easier for checking for any lumps or bumps in your testicles.My father died from prostate cancer in 2007,and I still miss him dearly.
He was a lovely father,and was always there to help me out in any way he can.He had chemotherapy at first,but the treatment only lasted a certain time,and couldn't
have any further treatment because of making him very ill.If only he had one more session,the cancer would have been killed off entirely.
He had 99.9% of the cancer pulled out of him.I couldn't believe what my mum and dad said about the result,So close to 100%.
Of course,that .1% had been building up very slowly year after year,and inevitably the cancer got hold of him again.
It was so sad to see him pass away in his sleep.He was 79 years old! So close to being an octogenarian!!
I would have loved him to live a further few years.....so sad :cry:
So, if any blokes are reading my message, please check your testicles every now and then....if there is any change in them like lumps or anything out of the ordinary,
go and see your doctor about it.For now,my testicles are okay and I'm pleased with the health of them.
As for your male friend whom you have been friends with for over 30 years,I loved that story you told me there.
What a fabulous result!! Awwww,I feel the love coming on already bambi!!
....and yes, it did make a lot of sense!!
By the way bambi what do you do for a living then? Are you a doctor or what?
You seem to give very good advice.....thanks again for the help.
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Hi! No I'm not a doctor - even though I should be!! ;-) I have just had MANY weird medical things going off with myself, family and friends and I have always absorbed Medical And Entertainment information - I don't know why!!! And YES I DO have a life!!!! ;-) XD I am also married and have 2 boys - thus the knowledge about penis's! XD 8-| I am supposedly the one to go to for yeast infection advice! Pregnancy and STD's!! I don't know how that happened but it did!!! I am glad you mentioned about testicular checks, it's just as important as self breast exams! Unfortunately many men - especially the older generation REFUSE! I even had to make an appointment for my 71 year old dad to have a Prostate Exam!!!! And this should also be done by ANY man over 40 - yearly!
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Hey ! Hey ! Bambi. Who you calling the older generation?
I'll be 70 in April and I've been gittin them Ooo! Ooo! tests for many years. XD
I'll be 70 in April and I've been gittin them Ooo! Ooo! tests for many years. XD
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Hey bambi!I wonder whether you could help me out again.
Since you are very informative in the mens downstairs dept, I have been a little worried about my testicles recently!!
Although they are healthy enough,ahem...they don't seem to sag or droop very much these days.
In fact,they droop occasionally,but not that often!! :?
But, they are usually right up tight together against the scrotum.I wondered if this was normal or not!!
Plus recently, my penis size has gone really small nowadays,unless it's something to do with the cold winter spell that we are having in our climate at the moment.
Or maybe it's got something to do with the pulling back of my foreskin which I have been doing a bit of recently.I have yet to get it over the frenulum,but I am getting close!!
It's got really uncomfortable with it being so small. :x
I would feel really embarrassed if I had a girlfriend right now. :(
Mind you,I have had a week off,and I have been sitting down at my PC a lot this week.I guess that could be something to do with it.
The PC chair is not that comfy....aaargh!! Having to move my backside occasionally to get extra comfort!!
Thanks for any advice.... :(
Since you are very informative in the mens downstairs dept, I have been a little worried about my testicles recently!!
Although they are healthy enough,ahem...they don't seem to sag or droop very much these days.
In fact,they droop occasionally,but not that often!! :?
But, they are usually right up tight together against the scrotum.I wondered if this was normal or not!!
Plus recently, my penis size has gone really small nowadays,unless it's something to do with the cold winter spell that we are having in our climate at the moment.
Or maybe it's got something to do with the pulling back of my foreskin which I have been doing a bit of recently.I have yet to get it over the frenulum,but I am getting close!!
It's got really uncomfortable with it being so small. :x
I would feel really embarrassed if I had a girlfriend right now. :(
Mind you,I have had a week off,and I have been sitting down at my PC a lot this week.I guess that could be something to do with it.
The PC chair is not that comfy....aaargh!! Having to move my backside occasionally to get extra comfort!!
Thanks for any advice.... :(
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Hi honey! The only time temperature affects your scrotum, testicles, and penis is when it is exposed to changes either cold water, air, they will shrivel and shrink back, if they are too warm they cause sperm problems! Since your entire UNIT! has shurnk back and I'm sure they aren't out there in the cold air!!! ;-) o.O I would suspect that your entire pelvic region is uncomfortable from the chair or if you have bowl problems etc! Think of your pelvis like a turtle! If everything is fine the head is out as are the legs!!!! If they are threatened or cold the head and the legs go back in the shell! Does that make sense? Also know the average length of a penis is 3 inches meaning there are men with 1 1/2 and others with 4 1/2 inches! It just doesn't matter! Most women will tell you that it is NOT about length but more about girth! And IF you are with a girl that is OVERLY concerned with your length, then just perhaps she shouldn't be intimate with!!! If you get my drift!? Good luck honey!
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Hiya bambi! Thanks for the advice! Apparently,when my manhood is flaccid it is quite small indeed. I feel very demoralised and sad whenever I look at it.
In fact I feel like I want to break down and cry sometimes.... :cry:
So,I try to ignore it,but I know it will still be there whenever I get undressed.Last night I tried a bit of foreplay with it,and for some strange reason I just couldn't get an erection at all!! :( I simply couldn't understand it!! But, during the night when I was relaxed and sleepy,I miraculously had an erection (no wet dreams though )
and I was fairly pleased,but it didn't quite stay for long.When I woke up in the morning it was back to it's usual self,flaccid and small again!!
:cry:
I'm not fat at all,and I am fairly stocky,but I do have love handles to tell you the truth.
I'm still apprehensive to see the doctor about it,my brother is a GP,and I have yet to see him.
I've sent him an email but he has not responded as yet,even though I emailed him a few days ago!!
Because of my small manhood I have never ever had a girlfriend......sad I know!!
When I was a teenager,I was quite happy with my manhood and it was functioning quite normally as a teenager's should,although I couldn't quite pull back my foreskin over my frenulum very well!! I was too scared to try in case I got it stuck.Being a teenager then,I was really jealous of other boys in PE classes who had a bigger manhood than mine,and growing up then I did watch some blue movies of girls and boys getting it together. (sorry to tell you this!)
I know this might come as a shock to you,but the boys in these blue movies could easily pull back their foreskins as if they were peeling bananas!!
I was really despondent when watching this kind of thing.I could pull back my foreskin,but I really did fear of getting the foreskin stuck behind the frenulum.
Maybe I could just manage to do it now,but I might hurt myself in doing so.It's just that it's too dam small......it really does take such a long time to get myself aroused and get an erection.You won't believe this but there's a few tears in my eyes as I type this sentence!!
I gotta go now....sorry.Be back soon.....
Looking at my signature I really do feel worser off than myself... :(
In fact I feel like I want to break down and cry sometimes.... :cry:
So,I try to ignore it,but I know it will still be there whenever I get undressed.Last night I tried a bit of foreplay with it,and for some strange reason I just couldn't get an erection at all!! :( I simply couldn't understand it!! But, during the night when I was relaxed and sleepy,I miraculously had an erection (no wet dreams though )
and I was fairly pleased,but it didn't quite stay for long.When I woke up in the morning it was back to it's usual self,flaccid and small again!!
:cry:
I'm not fat at all,and I am fairly stocky,but I do have love handles to tell you the truth.
I'm still apprehensive to see the doctor about it,my brother is a GP,and I have yet to see him.
I've sent him an email but he has not responded as yet,even though I emailed him a few days ago!!
Because of my small manhood I have never ever had a girlfriend......sad I know!!
When I was a teenager,I was quite happy with my manhood and it was functioning quite normally as a teenager's should,although I couldn't quite pull back my foreskin over my frenulum very well!! I was too scared to try in case I got it stuck.Being a teenager then,I was really jealous of other boys in PE classes who had a bigger manhood than mine,and growing up then I did watch some blue movies of girls and boys getting it together. (sorry to tell you this!)
I know this might come as a shock to you,but the boys in these blue movies could easily pull back their foreskins as if they were peeling bananas!!
I was really despondent when watching this kind of thing.I could pull back my foreskin,but I really did fear of getting the foreskin stuck behind the frenulum.
Maybe I could just manage to do it now,but I might hurt myself in doing so.It's just that it's too dam small......it really does take such a long time to get myself aroused and get an erection.You won't believe this but there's a few tears in my eyes as I type this sentence!!
I gotta go now....sorry.Be back soon.....
Looking at my signature I really do feel worser off than myself... :(
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Hi honey! Did you see what I wrote about averages? EVERY guy out there thinks they are too small, too big, too much foreskin etc etc etc. Just like girls worry about their breasts and genitalia! It's because of all these darn images on tv, movies, magazines etc. What you see on these "Blue" movies some of these people have been doing this for a LONG time and this is their JOB!! Did you know that most well endowed men can NOT get erections, due to the amount of blood needed to raise the penis?!
Do you know what our biggest sex organ is? It's the brain!!! And when you have upset, stress, dissapointment, worry, it TOTALLY has a negative reaction on your sexual response! So since you feel SO bad about the size of your boy - even when he's back in his shell just happy being there!!! You can make it virtually impossible for him to come out of the shell! You've made him embarrassed and ashamed so he doesn't want to come out!! Does that make sense?
Look in the mirror, and raise your tongue up, the piece of skin under your tongue is also called the frenulum - it is for the EXACT same reason as the frenulum on your foreksin! It is to stop the foreskin from being brought back too far! As long as you can get the skin over your head, you will have NO problem! What you have to realize is that you are NOT alone with your feelings about yourself! EVERY Man and woman have felt the same way you do and most still feel the same way! We have SO many images bombarding us - the internet, tv, videos, music, film, magazines etc. That they show everyone all writhing with ecstasy and everyone being orgasmic etc. I will tell you what I have told others! IF this was totally true, there would be NO ONE at work, at school etc!!! Think about it! These images are there to sell something - erotic movies, songs, IMAGES etc. Why do you think all the celebrities that were nobodies all of a sudden have a "sex tape" released to the media!? Did you even know about Paris Hilton - before her sex tape was released? Many reporters say that they actually get tips from these peoples agents about the video! So even that c**p isn't real!
You ARE what you ARE honey! Plain and simple! NOTHING to be ashamed of, NOTHING to worry about! You are a normal man! And it's time to let your hangups go! It's time for ALL of us to look in the mirror and say "I'm a good person, and I deserve to think of myself better!" We put ourselves down SO much and have these high unattainable expectations of ourselves! Thus so many "stars" having drug problems etc. They CANT live up to the hype! That THEY created! Your body works 24/7 for you, doing the best damn job he can! HE breathes for you, filters everything, protects you, and is there and WILL be there when you become intimate! And the way I see it, it means that you should love him and thank him more for being there for you! Not damning him for giving you what you consider a smaller buddy! He's trying with all of his might! You CAN'T put him down or yourself for this fact - because you ARE normal! And embrace that fact OK?
Do you know what our biggest sex organ is? It's the brain!!! And when you have upset, stress, dissapointment, worry, it TOTALLY has a negative reaction on your sexual response! So since you feel SO bad about the size of your boy - even when he's back in his shell just happy being there!!! You can make it virtually impossible for him to come out of the shell! You've made him embarrassed and ashamed so he doesn't want to come out!! Does that make sense?
Look in the mirror, and raise your tongue up, the piece of skin under your tongue is also called the frenulum - it is for the EXACT same reason as the frenulum on your foreksin! It is to stop the foreskin from being brought back too far! As long as you can get the skin over your head, you will have NO problem! What you have to realize is that you are NOT alone with your feelings about yourself! EVERY Man and woman have felt the same way you do and most still feel the same way! We have SO many images bombarding us - the internet, tv, videos, music, film, magazines etc. That they show everyone all writhing with ecstasy and everyone being orgasmic etc. I will tell you what I have told others! IF this was totally true, there would be NO ONE at work, at school etc!!! Think about it! These images are there to sell something - erotic movies, songs, IMAGES etc. Why do you think all the celebrities that were nobodies all of a sudden have a "sex tape" released to the media!? Did you even know about Paris Hilton - before her sex tape was released? Many reporters say that they actually get tips from these peoples agents about the video! So even that c**p isn't real!
You ARE what you ARE honey! Plain and simple! NOTHING to be ashamed of, NOTHING to worry about! You are a normal man! And it's time to let your hangups go! It's time for ALL of us to look in the mirror and say "I'm a good person, and I deserve to think of myself better!" We put ourselves down SO much and have these high unattainable expectations of ourselves! Thus so many "stars" having drug problems etc. They CANT live up to the hype! That THEY created! Your body works 24/7 for you, doing the best damn job he can! HE breathes for you, filters everything, protects you, and is there and WILL be there when you become intimate! And the way I see it, it means that you should love him and thank him more for being there for you! Not damning him for giving you what you consider a smaller buddy! He's trying with all of his might! You CAN'T put him down or yourself for this fact - because you ARE normal! And embrace that fact OK?
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Feel a little better after a little cry. breathes in deeply Aaaah!
I see in your latest post this quote:-
Hmmm,I think that my bowel is okay,(not sure) although it does tend to be tense and nervy at times.I sometimes feel as if my nerves are on edge,even though i'm a pretty laid back kind of person.Being on my own mainly I do tend to feel a bit down at times,although I have my mum to keep me company.My two older brothers have left the roost and got married and got themselves their own homes.So, it's just me and my mum.I don't have any close friends!! I tend to use the PC a lot to chat to my cyberspace friends, like you bambi! :)
Tries to hold back a tear before telling you this ,as you can see I'm quite a sensitive guy!
My father died of prostate cancer in October 2007,and I was deeply saddened and heartbroken when he passed away,my mother even more so!!
We both still miss him dearly,and we loved him heaps.He always put on a brave face until the very end,but he got weaker and weaker,and he died in his sleep.
While he was receiving chemotherapy they managed to kill off about 99.8% of his cancer cells,but could not receive any further treatment because it would make him seriously ill.I just wish he had that extra bit of treatment now.He would have been cancer free!! But,year after year after receiving treatment, that tiny percentage of cancer cells began to increase slowly.Eventually it took hold of him once again and he died at the age of 79.A pity he didn't make to being an octogenarian.
Going back to the subject though,I checked my testicles the other night as I was a little worried about my manhood,and I think that it was in good order.
So,I'm fairly happy with them dangly things.I just wish I had a bigger penis though....... :(
I think I will remain being a single person........I sometimes feel really lonely though :(
Catch your reply soon.
I see in your latest post this quote:-
Hmmm,I think that my bowel is okay,(not sure) although it does tend to be tense and nervy at times.I sometimes feel as if my nerves are on edge,even though i'm a pretty laid back kind of person.Being on my own mainly I do tend to feel a bit down at times,although I have my mum to keep me company.My two older brothers have left the roost and got married and got themselves their own homes.So, it's just me and my mum.I don't have any close friends!! I tend to use the PC a lot to chat to my cyberspace friends, like you bambi! :)
Tries to hold back a tear before telling you this ,as you can see I'm quite a sensitive guy!
My father died of prostate cancer in October 2007,and I was deeply saddened and heartbroken when he passed away,my mother even more so!!
We both still miss him dearly,and we loved him heaps.He always put on a brave face until the very end,but he got weaker and weaker,and he died in his sleep.
While he was receiving chemotherapy they managed to kill off about 99.8% of his cancer cells,but could not receive any further treatment because it would make him seriously ill.I just wish he had that extra bit of treatment now.He would have been cancer free!! But,year after year after receiving treatment, that tiny percentage of cancer cells began to increase slowly.Eventually it took hold of him once again and he died at the age of 79.A pity he didn't make to being an octogenarian.
Going back to the subject though,I checked my testicles the other night as I was a little worried about my manhood,and I think that it was in good order.
So,I'm fairly happy with them dangly things.I just wish I had a bigger penis though....... :(
I think I will remain being a single person........I sometimes feel really lonely though :(
Catch your reply soon.
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Just seen your latest post,I didn't realise you had posted so soon. :-D
But many thanks for supporting me in this particular problem.I cannot thank you enough!!
You are very kind and considerate,and I have taken everything into consideration of what you have told me.
You have made my life anew!! Thanks once again...
Do you think I should really see my brother who is a GP or not?
Or just leave it as it is?
But many thanks for supporting me in this particular problem.I cannot thank you enough!!
You are very kind and considerate,and I have taken everything into consideration of what you have told me.
You have made my life anew!! Thanks once again...
Do you think I should really see my brother who is a GP or not?
Or just leave it as it is?
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How old are you Bach!!!! ?
I'm a proud Welshman! I'm half Welsh - but my heart belongs to Wales! My family comes from around Ammanford - just North of Swansea!
Anyways I am serious about how old you are! When you mentioned your dad, it is ALWAYS a good idea to get a check up by a doctor, when you have some concerns about your health! I'm just a mom and a wife honey, I am NOT a doctor! I have 2 boys thus knowing a lot about the nether regions of men! XD ;-)
I'm a proud Welshman! I'm half Welsh - but my heart belongs to Wales! My family comes from around Ammanford - just North of Swansea!
Anyways I am serious about how old you are! When you mentioned your dad, it is ALWAYS a good idea to get a check up by a doctor, when you have some concerns about your health! I'm just a mom and a wife honey, I am NOT a doctor! I have 2 boys thus knowing a lot about the nether regions of men! XD ;-)
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Well,what do you know?? It's a small world as they say!!! The reason i said that is because......................................
...........................................I'm Welsh too!!! Yes, it's true!! You won't believe me when I say I'm from Carmarthen in West Wales!!!!
LOL.......i am truly amazed and gobsmacked!!! o.O
Right, I am 44 going on 45 this year.It's now about twenty past midnight,and I think my time is up on the PC tonight.
Been on the thing all evening!! Phew!!
I have been chatting to one of my younger friends in FaceBook.He simply loves my jokes,well some of them anyway,and having fun and a chat!!
:-D
As I type this message in,my stomach is not painful as such,just seems tense or something,and maybe a little on the nervy side.
Like as if you have errmm, oh I don't know how to describe it, like sort of a tingly edgy butterfly feeling.
Doesn't feel as if it's a stomach ache!! I really don't know what it is.I'm not really fat as I have described before,just a little stocky.
I've had this kind of feeling about a week now.I thought it would soon pass,and I have managed to get a slight erection earlier...ahem!!
But when I do,this tingly nervy feeling gets a bit berserk.Maybe it's because of stooping over the PC all the time, I really don't know.
But, I have never had this before when I have stooped over my PC.
Maybe I should sit upright a bit more yes?
When I relax,it goes away for a bit and i seem ok when i am asleep.
I know you said that you're not a doctor,i respect that. Maybe I should see my brother GP doctor about my condition!! %-)
Have to log off for now....going to listen to some relaxing music before I hit the pillow...i love my music!!
It's the best way to relax....i guess it's going to be Fireflies by Owl City again. I love this song.
Heard it many times now, and I never tire of it.Going to get the album soon!!
Night! :-)
...........................................I'm Welsh too!!! Yes, it's true!! You won't believe me when I say I'm from Carmarthen in West Wales!!!!
LOL.......i am truly amazed and gobsmacked!!! o.O
Right, I am 44 going on 45 this year.It's now about twenty past midnight,and I think my time is up on the PC tonight.
Been on the thing all evening!! Phew!!
I have been chatting to one of my younger friends in FaceBook.He simply loves my jokes,well some of them anyway,and having fun and a chat!!
:-D
As I type this message in,my stomach is not painful as such,just seems tense or something,and maybe a little on the nervy side.
Like as if you have errmm, oh I don't know how to describe it, like sort of a tingly edgy butterfly feeling.
Doesn't feel as if it's a stomach ache!! I really don't know what it is.I'm not really fat as I have described before,just a little stocky.
I've had this kind of feeling about a week now.I thought it would soon pass,and I have managed to get a slight erection earlier...ahem!!
But when I do,this tingly nervy feeling gets a bit berserk.Maybe it's because of stooping over the PC all the time, I really don't know.
But, I have never had this before when I have stooped over my PC.
Maybe I should sit upright a bit more yes?
When I relax,it goes away for a bit and i seem ok when i am asleep.
I know you said that you're not a doctor,i respect that. Maybe I should see my brother GP doctor about my condition!! %-)
Have to log off for now....going to listen to some relaxing music before I hit the pillow...i love my music!!
It's the best way to relax....i guess it's going to be Fireflies by Owl City again. I love this song.
Heard it many times now, and I never tire of it.Going to get the album soon!!
Night! :-)
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Have you had a prostate check done? Men are supposed to have one every year after 40! I would REALLY like you to have one! I don't want to worry you, your symptoms could be from anxiety but because of your dad I would like you to get checked out! LOVE Carmarthen! The whole country acutally!
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First of all,I would just like to say sorry for the slow response bambi.Another thing I would like to say,I simply love your username.....sounds so cute :D
Anyway,I have checked my testicles recently and they have drooped a fair bit which meant I could check them thoroughly,and they seemed to be okay.
I couldn't feel any lumps or anything out of the ordinary.I feel really good today!!
Although I might go for a prostate check soon though.Thanks for that sound advice.I would have thought that my brother would have suggested that.
I wonder why he didn't mention it.Perhaps he forgot!! I've never had a prostate check!! :o
Another reason I felt in a good mood, is because,well you probably won't believe me when I say that I managed to pull back my foreskin over the frenulum...woo hoo!!
:) Although it wasn't quite erect, it was between flaccid and erect! So whether I would be able to manage it when fully erect I don't know.
But, I will try though. My brother suggested using a steroid cream to stretch the foreskin which I will do sometime.
The penis head and frenulum seemed to be in good condition.Wasn't too mucky either,although I did get it somewhat stuck.
I did manage to get the foreskin back over the head again with a bit of careful tugging. Phew!! I was really relieved with that I can tell you.
I still would like to have a slightly bigger manhood though when flaccid!! Looks really puny!!
Never mind,if you're born with a small one,you'll end with a small one. Simple as that really!!
I'll just have to live with it. I guess there are many other young men and boys who have small penis's like mine who have to live with what they've got.
It's such a shame I have to hide it whenever I change into my swimming shorts or whatever in men's locker rooms.
Mind you I'm happier when it's erect though....wahey, watch out!!
I have gained a bit more confidence telling you about what has happened previously.But I'm sorry to say that I might not be able to come back here for a while,as my computer might play up a bit.It hasn't yet though!!
It's my fault for trying to upgrade my Windows XP computer.The update process checks to be sure my copy of the operating system is legal, which apparently it is not. Now that my computer information is in the Microsoft database, they will continue to nag me about it until I install a legal copy, i.e., buy a license from Microsoft. In some cases the operating system will itself be disabled.I did not know that the Windows on my dads computer was not the Genuine product.
It might be necessary for me to do a clean install of the WindowsXP operating system. That means erasing everything on my hard drive and installing what I have from scratch. ( I got this info from a computer expert I know of.I've asked him if there is another option I could go for)
So,if you don't hear from me for quite a while you'll know of my predicament.Sorry about this bambi.
Thanks for all the advice you have given me though.It was really nice knowing you my lovely friend.
Bye for now....with a bit of luck I might be able to catch you again soon.
Anyway,I have checked my testicles recently and they have drooped a fair bit which meant I could check them thoroughly,and they seemed to be okay.
I couldn't feel any lumps or anything out of the ordinary.I feel really good today!!
Although I might go for a prostate check soon though.Thanks for that sound advice.I would have thought that my brother would have suggested that.
I wonder why he didn't mention it.Perhaps he forgot!! I've never had a prostate check!! :o
Another reason I felt in a good mood, is because,well you probably won't believe me when I say that I managed to pull back my foreskin over the frenulum...woo hoo!!
:) Although it wasn't quite erect, it was between flaccid and erect! So whether I would be able to manage it when fully erect I don't know.
But, I will try though. My brother suggested using a steroid cream to stretch the foreskin which I will do sometime.
The penis head and frenulum seemed to be in good condition.Wasn't too mucky either,although I did get it somewhat stuck.
I did manage to get the foreskin back over the head again with a bit of careful tugging. Phew!! I was really relieved with that I can tell you.
I still would like to have a slightly bigger manhood though when flaccid!! Looks really puny!!
Never mind,if you're born with a small one,you'll end with a small one. Simple as that really!!
I'll just have to live with it. I guess there are many other young men and boys who have small penis's like mine who have to live with what they've got.
It's such a shame I have to hide it whenever I change into my swimming shorts or whatever in men's locker rooms.
Mind you I'm happier when it's erect though....wahey, watch out!!
I have gained a bit more confidence telling you about what has happened previously.But I'm sorry to say that I might not be able to come back here for a while,as my computer might play up a bit.It hasn't yet though!!
It's my fault for trying to upgrade my Windows XP computer.The update process checks to be sure my copy of the operating system is legal, which apparently it is not. Now that my computer information is in the Microsoft database, they will continue to nag me about it until I install a legal copy, i.e., buy a license from Microsoft. In some cases the operating system will itself be disabled.I did not know that the Windows on my dads computer was not the Genuine product.
It might be necessary for me to do a clean install of the WindowsXP operating system. That means erasing everything on my hard drive and installing what I have from scratch. ( I got this info from a computer expert I know of.I've asked him if there is another option I could go for)
So,if you don't hear from me for quite a while you'll know of my predicament.Sorry about this bambi.
Thanks for all the advice you have given me though.It was really nice knowing you my lovely friend.
Bye for now....with a bit of luck I might be able to catch you again soon.
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