It's impossible for me to have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. If I don't have direct contact on my clit at all times , I can forget about having an orgasm. I would really like to have an orgasm when my fiance is bending me over, but it's impossible for me. Any suggestions|advice? It'll be greatly appreciated.
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I also can’t have an orgasm with bending, I find it kind of normal. There are no nerves inside vagina, they are situated on the clitoris, so clitoris is our main point. This is why “girls on top” is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm.
Although you may enjoy the bending position, with the thrusting and all, there is no need to panic about not being able to orgasm. If you would really want to, then your boyfriend should try to stimulate your clitoris while coming from behind-it is possible and it is great.
Have you tried anal? There are nerves in the rectum as well. Doing anal with clitoris stimulation can be great and bring you an orgasm as well.
Although you may enjoy the bending position, with the thrusting and all, there is no need to panic about not being able to orgasm. If you would really want to, then your boyfriend should try to stimulate your clitoris while coming from behind-it is possible and it is great.
Have you tried anal? There are nerves in the rectum as well. Doing anal with clitoris stimulation can be great and bring you an orgasm as well.
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It is perfectly normal not to be able to have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Vaginal orgasm is really more urban myth than science fact; most women can only have a clitoral orgasm. If you can climax during intercourse by ensuring clitoral contact, great. If it doesn't work out naturally, try cunnilingus afterwards, or beforehand, or before and after. If you want to orgasm while bending down, try stimulating yourself with a vibrator during intercourse in that position. If you bend over a table, you should have enough free space to be able to make that possible for you. :)
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What happens if you bleed with and after an orgasm? Is that bad or normal? Or cuz of irregualar periods?
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Thank you so much for responding! We've tried anal and it feels really good, but trying to get him in hurts really bad!!! Thanks again.
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