Hi i am 3 days out of surgery and have been taking lactalose, MOM, and stool softners. nothing happens. i do sitz baths too. i can feel that it is there but will not come out. my surgeon said drink the entire bottle of mag citrate and still nothing. i am only eating soft cooked cabage, apple sauce, and blueberries, cherries and strawberries. my last option is an enima but i am scared because i do not want to pop a stitch trying to get the nozzel in there. please help me i am scared i am going to mess myself up. if it is ok to use the enima what should i put in the bag with the water to help keep it from damaging anything.