This is very embaressing so sorry if I'm a bit vague, erm...well basically I pretty much know I need to go to the doctors but as you will soon find out it is really embaressing so I wanted your opinion first.
Anyway the problem : Well basically I'm a heavy set bloke basically, pretty large especially in the thigh region. Basically my problem is my boxers (underwear for any americans) ride up and with my thigh's rubbing together cause great irriation, mostly in hot weather thogh to be honest. My problem is not so much that because I am on a diet and this should go with my weight loss, due to less thigh rubbing etc. My problem is I have a girlfriend who has never done anything sexual with anybody but she wants to with me (god knows why) and well it's a bit weird but my thigh area particularly around the top of my thigh (basically where the leg stops and my crotch and penis begins) I have a staining of the skin I guess you could call it, it's like a slight brown tinge to my skin like patched tanning. It's from where it used to be irratated and was red and inflamed and is now brown basically. I want to know any tips or help you could give me to save the embaressment of the doctors, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much in advance, please no flaming though.
Anyway the problem : Well basically I'm a heavy set bloke basically, pretty large especially in the thigh region. Basically my problem is my boxers (underwear for any americans) ride up and with my thigh's rubbing together cause great irriation, mostly in hot weather thogh to be honest. My problem is not so much that because I am on a diet and this should go with my weight loss, due to less thigh rubbing etc. My problem is I have a girlfriend who has never done anything sexual with anybody but she wants to with me (god knows why) and well it's a bit weird but my thigh area particularly around the top of my thigh (basically where the leg stops and my crotch and penis begins) I have a staining of the skin I guess you could call it, it's like a slight brown tinge to my skin like patched tanning. It's from where it used to be irratated and was red and inflamed and is now brown basically. I want to know any tips or help you could give me to save the embaressment of the doctors, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much in advance, please no flaming though.
There is nothing embarrasing about it, go see a doctor, he will be able to guide you. You should not be embarrassed about anything only God can judge you. Take care brother, wish you the best.
I have the same problem and I'm a woman. I went to a dermatologist once and he said it was evidence that I had a very bad infection in that area. He didn't give me anything to correct it. It seems to come and go. Or, at least get darker and lighter. I'm big too and have similar problems. I wish someone would have a cure for this. It is embarrassing.