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Happened to me too. I wanna know as well and why it wouldn't go all the way in.
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So what happened to you? If you explain exactly what happened then help might be more likely given.
(The link to someone's post who says 'same thing happened to me' doesn't help)
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I wonder if when u have sex and say you had sex that night and the next morning yhu start bleeding for a week and a few days I wonder why that happens
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My bf stuck his penis nd pushed a little inside and it starts 2 bleed ...but when he again tried 2 put push it inside ..then too it was paining ..hav i lost my verginity
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we didnt intercourse since last two times...now when we first time do sex no bleedingcomes out mns still am i virgin ...give me roly pls
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It is likely that your hymen has been ruptured, or at least partially ruptured. You can check its state by using a hand-mirror.
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I am not sure exactly what you mean, but if you have had intercourse, then you are no longer a virgin.
No bleeding could mean that your hymen was already ruptured, or that there was not enough pressure to break the hymen.
You can check that state of your hymen by using a hand-mirror.
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Okay, I was just browsing simce I had something similar like this today. So Um, my boyfriend and I did give bjs and he tried to put it in and it prolly didnt go in that much and it did hurt and I didnt bleed. But we didnt use condom because we didnt do it and I was freaking out, what if I am pregnant or sth. But then he jerked it off somewhere else. So should I be worried or anything?
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Worried about what? Losing your virginity? Breaking your hymen? or getting pregnant?

  1. If his penis entered your vagina, you are no longer a virgin.
  2. If you didn't bleed, then he may not have ruptured your hymen. You can check it using a hand mirror.
  3. If it happened at a fertile time, then it is possible you may get pregnant.
    1. If you gave him oral, then he may have ejaculated (or partly) in your mouth (you didn't say), or at least had pre-cum.
    2. Pre-cum can contain sperm, and it only has to be introduced into your vagina for the possibility for sperm to swim inside.
    3. But you haven't given a lot of information.
  4. To establish  the likelihood of being a fertile time you need to give details of your cycle and the start dates of your last 6 periods.
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I'm 16 years old. I lost my virginty to my boyfriend be told to put his penis in my vagina because he didn't want to hurt me, but I didn't bleed. Did I not bleed because I inserted it and I didn't know what I was doing and it could possibly have went into the wrong hole? A few days after I listed my virginity I did have spotting, so im quit a bit confused i lost my virginity and didnt bleed or it mightve went into the wrong hole because ive inserted it? Please help me understand, I asked my older sister. But she didn't care.
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It is highly unlikely his penis went in the wrong hole. Apart from your anus, you have two holes: your urethra (from which you urinate) and your vagina (from which you menstruate). Your urethra would be too small for his penis to enter. The likelihood is that your hymen was already ruptured, or was very elastic. You haven't said anything about how it felt, or any previous sexual activity (like masturbation, oral sex, fingering) to be able to say much more. Your hymen could have been ruptured by some sexual activity (as mentioned), through sports, or by a medical examination. I would hope you are using some sort of protection, and a medical examination might have been needed before prescribing contraception.
You can check the state of your hymen by using a hand mirror, or you could get someone you trust to check it for you. I'm sorry your sister was no help.
I hope this helps as a start, and if you want to discuss it more, please feel free to do so - privately if you prefer.
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Will she get pregnant?
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Either his penis actually entered her vagina or it didn't. If it did, neither is a virgin anymore.
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Shepherd99 raised a good point on p3 that seems to be missed (here and elsewhere this is asked). I too wonder what this "two inches in", "halfway in", "not fully", or "just the tip", really is. Everyone talks about the hymen, but before you even get to that, there's the vulva or vestibule (the sides of the vulva outside the opening of the vagina), and it seems that can be tight as well (it's pushed together by the superficial muscles of the pelvic floor), so I wonder if most of this initial pain, and even the bleeding is really from this area, which is also tender and can suffer lacerations and bleed as well, especially if not properly lubricated.
Drawings actually show the vulva spread open, and it looks like "there's the hole (with the hymen), just pop through it", but you can't really see the depth of the whole thing; it looks wide open and almost flat, but has to be pushed open by the tip at the same time as pushing in. That must cause some friction, but I wonder is it really that difficult as what people are describing.

It looks like the tip itself can be mostly buried in the vestibule, fitting neatly without even entering the vagina, but probably looks and feels like something going into a slot, and so it's like "putting it in a little bit". But then there's all this pain and a barrier is felt afterward.
So I wonder if people are misunderstanding each other as to what is meant by "entrance". There's really two entrances, then. Like the actual vestibule of a multifamily building having two doors with space inbetween. Occasionally, someone will mention the difference between the vulva and vagina, but then they go back to referring to the vagina as the "entrance" that was "penetrated", when it seems the questioner may really have been asking about the vulva.

The vulva isn't two inches deep, but I wonder if the labia and the elasticity of the flesh might make it look like two inches of the penis have gone "inside".
It seems once that inner "seal" is pushed through, it's easier and less painful (this would include my own experience, but it was a relaxed environment, so it wasn't as difficult). The muscles further up don't seem to pose as much of a problem (unless the woman really has a genuine condition like true vaginismus, and this does not necessarily have to do with the first time; it's usually something that develops later on for different reasons). I've also read that irritations, even from stuff like fabrics, yeast, etc. will make even the vulva totally painful to touch.

So I'm wondering if anyone else can vouch that this is really what's going on. That the "tightness" and pain for a lot of first time women like the OP is really in the vulva rather than the vagina? (If so, then many of these people were probably still technical virgins in the physical sense, though it's true that with even that much intimate contact, they still lost it in the sense of "sexual experience", and can still get pregnant). I think it would help these questioners if these things were clarified.
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I had sex the other day with my boyfriend, I'm confused because he went all the way in and yet I didn't feel that super sharp pain, it was sore but I don't think he broke my virginity. Any advice?
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