I had my first sexual experience about half a year ago (im 21). Before that I could get errections no problem, but when I started talking to this girl i started to find it difficult to get and maintain errections. Whenever we would sext I couldn't get an errection, or even when i would masturbate, even now I can't get one. When we first interacted (foreplay) I wasn't able to get an errection, and fast forward 8 months, it takes me forever to get an errection and is a mission to maintain it, whether it being masturbating or if I'm with another girl. Anyone ever experience this?
Usually with this kind of an issue it is an emotional or psychological cause rather than a physical one; are you aware of having any strong feelings either about sex, the girl(s) in question or any pressure you may have to perform in a certain way? These kind of things can often bring about the problem you’re describing. Trying to relax and allow yourself to just enjoy being in the moment, being with the person you’re with and enjoying the sensations, rather than worrying about anything else, can often help. On a separate note, keep your healthy red penis in good general health; use a top drawer penis vitamin cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Look for a cream with a wide range of vitamins, including A, B5, C and D. Good luck!