Ok so im 18 & Friday night I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7months & best friend for 2 years. He was very large & i had a lot of pain but no blood. Saturday I noticed very light red spots in my panties but that stopped later in the day. Today Sunday I noticed a big spot of light brown discharge. I put on a pad thinking its my period but it's been 3/4 hours & no spots or anything. I'm due for it within a few days. I'm not sure if it's from my hymen tearing or my period starting? ( I'm on BC btw if that means anything)
Hey, to have discharge is perfectly normal. In college a few years ago, I had sex with a girl who hadn't had sex in awhile (meaning a year or so) and I am nicely endowed and she bled for awhile too. She visited her doctor and everything was okay. It's just because it was your first time and you just so happen to have hit the JACKPOT and get a guy that is nicely endowed and he stretched you more than you'd probably expected.
In the future though, using lubricant or having an extended amount of foreplay will help get you wet enough so that sex isn't painful and/or bleeding afterwards. And foreplay is ALWAYS a good thing for a relationship. That's 90% of sex anyway :)
Be safe and you two love birds have fun!! :-)
In the future though, using lubricant or having an extended amount of foreplay will help get you wet enough so that sex isn't painful and/or bleeding afterwards. And foreplay is ALWAYS a good thing for a relationship. That's 90% of sex anyway :)
Be safe and you two love birds have fun!! :-)