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Hi, well the first time I tried having sex he couldnt get it in an it hurt so badly so he stopped.I have decided im ready to try again but I have a few questions

1.Do you bleed during sex if you are a virgin or a half virgin?
2.How should I prepare so it will hurt less badly

Thank you so much for your time you are greatly appreciated.
Yes, you would bleed if your hymen wasn't broken all the way.

It might hurt and to avoid it, there should be a lot of foreplay so you would relax, water based lubrication to make things go smoother and possibly fingering to get you more excited, more wet and to think less about the pain.
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not all virgins bleed the first time, due to the following reason:
some girls are not born with hymen
some loose it during horse back riding
thru the improper use of tampoons
other vigorous exercise.

if you do have hymen, then your bleeding depends on how gentle your partner is.
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hi,you should try some forplay first,so your vagina becomes more moist,which will make it go in easier. also,you shouldnt plan it,because it will probably make you nervous,which without you knowing,tesnses your vaginal muscles.

not everyone bleeds when they first have sex,but it is common and nothing to worry about
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I did not bleed at all,
So you should be fine but next time yes getting more excited about the sex to create lubricant would help. Even then, yes being tense before hand will affect your lubrication and tightness. So i would suggest to not exactly plan on having sex but if it is to happen maybe keep some lube with you and always ensure you have a condom. Reapply the lube as needed during intercourse.

Other than that i dont know how u can better prepare. Other than just trying to relax.
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Would horse back riding completely remove any bleeding. And would it reduce the amount of feeling as some1 I now can't get an orgasm no matter how hard she tries, help?
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thru the improper use of tampoons IF YOU HAVE HAD ANYTIHNG IN THE SANCTITY OF YOUR WOMB THE YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN. A FINGER, A TAMPON, ANYTHING!

some loose it during horse back riding-other vigorous exercise. Fact: The hymen cannot be torn through participation in sports (e.g. straddle injuries) such as gymnastics, horse riding, bicycle riding etc
http://hymen.pro/hymen.pro_hymen_junk_science.html
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let it go all the way
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