Hello,
i heard from many people that first time intercourse hurts a lot.I am about to do it very soon on my nuptial night and i wanted to know if it really hurts so bad.
Thanks
ligana
When I had first sex with my boyfriend and was unhappy and I think that it hurts indeed.
However that depends on the relationships you have with your boyfriend.
oh, i am a bit afraid as im going to get married tomorrow
im very confortable with my future husband but im a little worried
It varies from woman to woman. The reason sex hurts the first time is because when the man puts his penis into your vagina, he breaks a thin wall of flesh known as the Kyneman. No one really knows for sure why we have a hyneman, only that it's there. When the hyneman "Breaks," it will desolve and come out more or less like a period. In other words, there's often blood the first time you have sex, and for a little while after. This is natural, don't panic!!!
Now, as I said at the beggining, each woman's different. Some women will feel a lot of pain - My girlfriend couldn't sleep the night I took her virginity... Some women won't feel any pain at all, or just a very small amount. In the same way, I've heard women bleed different amounts. Your hyneman can also be broken when masterbating, not so much with your fingers as with sex toys or makeshift versions of them. It can even be broken by accident - I know someone who broke theirs in a bike accident, and I've heard about horseriding being a big cause of it.
The pain and the bleeding are both natural and nothing to be afraid of. Just make sure, when the time comes, you're ready. Plenty of foreplay beforehand, have some fun, and if you're nervous or scared, tell him. Talk to him about it, and make sure he's gentle and eases you into things :)
Enjoy yourself!