i lost my virginity a few days ago and it wasn't very pleasurable. it felt good at times, but not nearly as good as i had imagined sex would feel. it hurt mostly especilly when he went really deep. i was gfeeling a tiny bit of pleaure with mostly a dull feeling, with the occasional sharp pain when he went very deep. my question is, is it better after the first time?
i was expecting much more pleasure and less pain.
please reply as i am confused
i was expecting much more pleasure and less pain.
please reply as i am confused
When my fiance and I had sex for the first time, it was the first time for the both of us. She was in a great deal of pain, and I could tell that she was not enjoying it too much. But after the first time, it was better, and she enjoys it very much now.
I hope that helps a bit.
I hope that helps a bit.
Don't worry, this is common. Sex for a woman is not very pleasurable the first few times.
Use water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide or KY Jelly, every time. Not only that, make sure you have enough, that it feels gooey. If you'd like, see a gynecologist and ask for some small plastic tubes to help you stretch. If you feel there is something wrong, don't panic. See a gynecologist and get everything checked out. Again, pain the first time is normal.
Use water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide or KY Jelly, every time. Not only that, make sure you have enough, that it feels gooey. If you'd like, see a gynecologist and ask for some small plastic tubes to help you stretch. If you feel there is something wrong, don't panic. See a gynecologist and get everything checked out. Again, pain the first time is normal.