i'm a girl, 16, and i have never masterbated before...thats because i've always been to scarred to try it :$ . so does it hurt at all, especially in the beginning? is there anything i should know before i try anything?
i would like some advice as soon as possible! thnks :-)
i would like some advice as soon as possible! thnks :-)
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no not at all, masterbating is natural and it wouldnt hurt if it was a normal thing would it. Its nothing to be scared of and you have nothing to fear.
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it might hurt depending on how tight ur vagina is. just slip in a finger and don't poke it in fast or go rough.just go slowly and touch around softly,and see what u like
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Shaking can be from adrenaline. It's perfectly normal when you are excited, and it will pass. Doing any kind of long term damage by masturbating would be pretty difficult (I have heard of a young woman trying to masturbate with a pipe and cut herself internally).. just don't use an object that isn't designed for the task! Don't use anything that could break, or even has a seam. If you want a vibrator, go to Spencer gifts at the mall, and just swallow your embarrassment... When I was 15 I walked straight into Spencers, grabbed a small $10 vibrator, paid cash.. and left, and it was the best thing I ever did for myself, I think I had about 20 orgasms that day. People buy that stuff every day, nothing surprises those cashiers.
Masturbation could be painful if you break your hymn for the first time or if you use an object that is too large it may hurt when you put it in (just don't use something that large, you aren't going to injure yourself though, so don't worry about trying). Don't use food (no banana, no hot dogs), it's not clean, banana peel can splinter, and food may break (you don't want to go to the hospital missing half a banana). Start with a finger, move on to something larger if you feel like penetration at all (which isn't really necessary if you are just getting started learning).
The most important thing to do is find is your clitoris, many women won't orgasm from penetration alone and gently rubbing the clitoris with a water-based lubricant (to avoid reactions to other creams or chemicals, like you will want to avoid soap.. spit is actually an excellent lubricant if you have enough saliva, try spitting on your hand unless you feel like buying lubricant online. You can also buy KY Jelly at wallgreens.). If you don't know where your clitoris "clit" is, just do a google search for "female clitoris anatomy" and you will find images.
Masturbation could be painful if you break your hymn for the first time or if you use an object that is too large it may hurt when you put it in (just don't use something that large, you aren't going to injure yourself though, so don't worry about trying). Don't use food (no banana, no hot dogs), it's not clean, banana peel can splinter, and food may break (you don't want to go to the hospital missing half a banana). Start with a finger, move on to something larger if you feel like penetration at all (which isn't really necessary if you are just getting started learning).
The most important thing to do is find is your clitoris, many women won't orgasm from penetration alone and gently rubbing the clitoris with a water-based lubricant (to avoid reactions to other creams or chemicals, like you will want to avoid soap.. spit is actually an excellent lubricant if you have enough saliva, try spitting on your hand unless you feel like buying lubricant online. You can also buy KY Jelly at wallgreens.). If you don't know where your clitoris "clit" is, just do a google search for "female clitoris anatomy" and you will find images.
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Don't ever try it. The boys masturbation hurts, I think girl's masturbation might hurt as well. I tried it, I am 13 and it really hurts alot!
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it wont hurt if you do it right but if you start and you have sharp finger nails it WILL hurt.
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My sister is ten and she told me she tried masterbating and it hurt. Do you know why
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Since ur young u haven't removed a part of the skin on the penis dont try to remove it right now it will hurt like hell
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boys masterbate and it does not hurt it feels good (not being weird) it's perfectly normal... for girls they do it differently they use dildos or maybe their hands... people masterbate at the age around 12 and 13 when they start and grown ups still do so maybe your mom and dad masterbate
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You must of been doing it wrong. Both female, and male masturbation is very non-painful, if you know what you're doing.
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I think it is because she’s small and she’s just begging to do it. (Meaning her vagina is probably tight)
The more you do it and the older the less it will hurt and it will just feel good.
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WHAT IM DEAD! Guys Masturbating doesn't hurt and if it does then you should probably see a doctor
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