Okay Im sure this has been asked at some point on this site. But I'll go ahead with the problem.
I recently turned 21 and have never had a problem getting it up before especially for sex. I never masturbate and no I'm not lying it just has never been appealing for me I only do it to relieve blue balls ( so maybe once or twice a month ). My girlfriend and I only have time for sex once a week and every time we are having sex I can get it up while getting blow BUT as soon as we put it in I start getting soft. Once it goes soft its gone I can't get it back up at all.
The only idea I have had ( yesterday ) was maybe not masturbating has caused my penis to do something like atrophy? That it just isn't used enough?
So my question is, is that possible? Can a penis atrophy because of lack of use? Should I look into Viagra or something like that.
I recently turned 21 and have never had a problem getting it up before especially for sex. I never masturbate and no I'm not lying it just has never been appealing for me I only do it to relieve blue balls ( so maybe once or twice a month ). My girlfriend and I only have time for sex once a week and every time we are having sex I can get it up while getting blow BUT as soon as we put it in I start getting soft. Once it goes soft its gone I can't get it back up at all.
The only idea I have had ( yesterday ) was maybe not masturbating has caused my penis to do something like atrophy? That it just isn't used enough?
So my question is, is that possible? Can a penis atrophy because of lack of use? Should I look into Viagra or something like that.
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hey! Probably looking at viagra is a good option. Ive heard of this situation before and viagra has really helped. you can check out It has information on ED and viagra. It should be helpful.
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Why is this happening at this age though. There is no history of it happening in my family. I have nothing wrong with my prostate my blood pressure is great 106/60s my cholesterol is in the 170s. Its not like I'm in my 50s this makes no sense.
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AS you had told earlier, that you don't try masturbation, may be that may be a reason, that you had gone soft. I think masturbation is importnat, not too much, but it has its impotence...
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You are young and healthy and I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. And there is no such thing as 'penis atrophy because of lack of use'.
This is probably just a case of sexual performance anxiety (anxiety and depression can have a drastic impact on a man's sex life) and I'm sure things will improve with time. If they don't, consult a urologist. You'll have to do a series of tests to determine the exact cause of your problem. Even if this turns out to be purely psychological, a urologist can prescribe you an effective treatment.
I suffered from sexual performance anxiety (coital anxiety) for many years but a visit to my urologist changed all that. I'm currently taking Cialis and VIGAMED (oral phentolamine) and I'm very happy with the results.
Two more tips: don't try any drugs without the supervision of your doctor, self-medication is always a risk; do some research on this subject, the more you know about these problems the less stressful they will be. Good luck!
This is probably just a case of sexual performance anxiety (anxiety and depression can have a drastic impact on a man's sex life) and I'm sure things will improve with time. If they don't, consult a urologist. You'll have to do a series of tests to determine the exact cause of your problem. Even if this turns out to be purely psychological, a urologist can prescribe you an effective treatment.
I suffered from sexual performance anxiety (coital anxiety) for many years but a visit to my urologist changed all that. I'm currently taking Cialis and VIGAMED (oral phentolamine) and I'm very happy with the results.
Two more tips: don't try any drugs without the supervision of your doctor, self-medication is always a risk; do some research on this subject, the more you know about these problems the less stressful they will be. Good luck!
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I had thought about the whole performance anxiety thing but we have been together for over a year sex is nothing new to us. I will be talking with my doctor by next week and I will give an update as to what he suggests.
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