I am 43 years old. I have been in a relationship with the same woman for 3 years. When I ejaculate it's all good. But when I cum in her mouth, it's a different story. As soon as I cum It takes everything I have not to urinate. This has never been a problem until I the past two years. Once I told her about it she didn't care she said if that is what you need to do then do it. When I finally did it was the best orgasm ever. I just don't feel right when she is drinking it down. I kinda feel like I am degrading her. I love this woman more than I have ever loved anyone. She is amazing. I'm just concerned that it might be part a much larger issue. We have a healthy sex life. And she has never complained about it. I was the man to give her an orgasm. Orally is the only way she is able to achieve orgasm. And I love to do it. Sometimes I just want to pleasure her and am not worried about me. Because I am either not in the mood, too tired or it's in the morning before she goes to work and there is not enough time.