hello!! i have this problem of ejaculation sooner than i want to.. m only 20 yrs old..
while having sex with my girlfriend.. i ejaculate very soon.. even before my girlfriend starts to feel amythn.. i mean i want to prolong my intercourse time but it just does not happen.. i feel very embarrassed because of this.. and i think this will eventually effect our relationship..
and ya i have even tried to stop the ejaculation just before time.. to prolong the sex.. but it does not actually work.. because eventually after 3-5 sec you ejaculate...
ok so my 1st question is
1] is it normal or is there any problem with me...
2] you think i am becoming a little more hyper than you think i shld be...
3] is there any other way/s to prolong the sex.. apart from delaying the ejaculation..
please help me out.. it is very important to me 2 know this before i get embarrassed AGAIN!!
THANK YOU...
while having sex with my girlfriend.. i ejaculate very soon.. even before my girlfriend starts to feel amythn.. i mean i want to prolong my intercourse time but it just does not happen.. i feel very embarrassed because of this.. and i think this will eventually effect our relationship..
and ya i have even tried to stop the ejaculation just before time.. to prolong the sex.. but it does not actually work.. because eventually after 3-5 sec you ejaculate...
ok so my 1st question is
1] is it normal or is there any problem with me...
2] you think i am becoming a little more hyper than you think i shld be...
3] is there any other way/s to prolong the sex.. apart from delaying the ejaculation..
please help me out.. it is very important to me 2 know this before i get embarrassed AGAIN!!
THANK YOU...
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lol, dude you and I unfortunately face the same problems. I believe we all do. There is medication or some other sort of pill that you can take to prolong an errection. And you and I both know we love our girlfriends (so much that we think about what we are doing and where we are touching them and what they look like). There was one thing that helped (I am 17 turning 18 really soon and dont have the overall motivation to get the pills).
I am talking about sex in the dark. It is one of the most hardest things I had to do, but I couldn't see her body, I couldnt see her face. A lot of people put here "think of other things". That of course is completely difficult almost impossible, but very true. So, when my girlfriend and I had sex there was nothing for me to really capture and in my head it made me become more prolonged because I couldn't think of anything to make me cum faster. Trust me I was able to go ridiculously fast (all the other times I was scared to ejaculate and did and went to slow but it was in the light) and she absolutely loved it. She said it was the best sex we ever had, and I had to honestly agree. Try it.
I am talking about sex in the dark. It is one of the most hardest things I had to do, but I couldn't see her body, I couldnt see her face. A lot of people put here "think of other things". That of course is completely difficult almost impossible, but very true. So, when my girlfriend and I had sex there was nothing for me to really capture and in my head it made me become more prolonged because I couldn't think of anything to make me cum faster. Trust me I was able to go ridiculously fast (all the other times I was scared to ejaculate and did and went to slow but it was in the light) and she absolutely loved it. She said it was the best sex we ever had, and I had to honestly agree. Try it.
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try different position. Missionary is too quick for me. Her on top i can last a very long time. also foreplay on her gets her going quicker...take your time here. by going longer and her going quicker it helps you meet in the middle more often.
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Many therapists are not discouraging their clients from trying to think of other, non-sexual topics while engaging in sex.... baseball stats, work, unpleasant things...
Instead, many are recommending the video from the Sinclair Sexual Institute titled "You Can Last Longer". This 40 minute video is available on VHS or DVD and is suitable for singles or couples to view together.
The self-guided program can be conducted over weeks or months, as it is self-paced and progresses only as fast as the couple sees success.
They no longer recommend distracting thoughts, as it could backfire...
could like sexual response to those other topics and thoughts, and generally maks sexual response less pleasant for both individuals. A better program of training the male has been developed.
Instead, many are recommending the video from the Sinclair Sexual Institute titled "You Can Last Longer". This 40 minute video is available on VHS or DVD and is suitable for singles or couples to view together.
The self-guided program can be conducted over weeks or months, as it is self-paced and progresses only as fast as the couple sees success.
They no longer recommend distracting thoughts, as it could backfire...
could like sexual response to those other topics and thoughts, and generally maks sexual response less pleasant for both individuals. A better program of training the male has been developed.
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