I am 32 years old and married. My wife and I would like to start a family as soon as possible, but I have been having some problems lately. Sometimes, I will get an erection and then just a few seconds in, it'll get soft. Then sometimes if I can maintain an erection, I won't be able to ejaculate. It seems every time we have sex, it ends with both of us in a fight or just really frustrated...Not good! Now, I am able to have an erection and ejaculate when I watch porn. I usually will masturbate 5x in a week, with no problem. I can do it fast or make myself last longer. I want to be able to get her pregnant, so does anyone have any suggestions? I've heard that I have desensitized myself from masturbating, so should I stop? And for how long? Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.
that is because you seem nervous, when erected, and you become nervous, your nervous system tells ur brain you are nervous and it automatically will go down, go doctors and ask what they think is bests