I have been masturbating since I was in early teen, probably 12. Those days I reached climax pretty soon... I have read on this website that as you grow, you gain strength and thus proper erection. So, when I was in late teens, I retained erection even after ejaculation and I use to keep rubbing my boy for couple of minutes before it became flacid. Now im 28 and I still masturbate... though not so regularly. But when I get turned on, I do it very aggressively.... I usually do about 6 or 7 times within a span of 12 hours (through-out the night). I jerk off thrice before I go to bed. Twice or sometimes thrice in the middle of night (God knows how I wake up) and then couple of times early morning before I leave bed. First or second attempt gets heavy flow and when it reaches 6th or 7th, its just a drop.
FYI, i watch porn and have a lady (friend) in my friend's list who gets naked when we get together online and we have fun.
What is going on with me? Do you think it is normal? Will it effect my married life in future? It won't pain at all, neither I have erectile dysfunction. And one more thing, I don't even touch my boy for the next 2-3 weeks. I guess, no fluid... no lust.
FYI, i watch porn and have a lady (friend) in my friend's list who gets naked when we get together online and we have fun.
What is going on with me? Do you think it is normal? Will it effect my married life in future? It won't pain at all, neither I have erectile dysfunction. And one more thing, I don't even touch my boy for the next 2-3 weeks. I guess, no fluid... no lust.
it sounds like you're asking why your sex drive is so high, or how you can experience so many climaxes.
Some men have amazing capacity while others can only shoot once.
You appear to be in the prime of life, and have plenty of energy to spare.
You may also be stimulating yourself to a "climax" that isn't a complete orgasm, but "edging".
Your description of "heavy flow" for the first or second, but barely a drop left for later climaxs certainly sound like an orgasm to me.
This may not be "normal" in the sense that everyone has this practice, but the answers to your question should reassure you:
Masturbation will not harm you in later life.
It will not affect your married life negatively... although the increased familiarity with your body and your response will help you achieve orgasm with a partner more regularly.
Masturbation will not lead to erectile dysfuction nor pain, providing you are not overly-rough or abusing yourself to the point of pain.
You might want to consider backing off a bit, and saving some of your energy to put into a relationship with a woman who can accompany you out and about, but not all of us can be with someone at this point of your life.
Good luck.
Some men have amazing capacity while others can only shoot once.
You appear to be in the prime of life, and have plenty of energy to spare.
You may also be stimulating yourself to a "climax" that isn't a complete orgasm, but "edging".
Your description of "heavy flow" for the first or second, but barely a drop left for later climaxs certainly sound like an orgasm to me.
This may not be "normal" in the sense that everyone has this practice, but the answers to your question should reassure you:
Masturbation will not harm you in later life.
It will not affect your married life negatively... although the increased familiarity with your body and your response will help you achieve orgasm with a partner more regularly.
Masturbation will not lead to erectile dysfuction nor pain, providing you are not overly-rough or abusing yourself to the point of pain.
You might want to consider backing off a bit, and saving some of your energy to put into a relationship with a woman who can accompany you out and about, but not all of us can be with someone at this point of your life.
Good luck.
It's completely normal!