Failed Surgical Abortion

Everything you mentioned is EXACTLY how im feeling. I have 4 children, and one miscarriage (blighted ovum last year that caised hemorrhaging and i nearly died)..so my life is so hectic already... youngest is 2..the morning after pill didnt work for some reason. My partner struggled as much as me with the decision. We just thought that mentally and physically we wouldnt cope. I thought i was so strong in going ahead with the termination. I had to wait a week for the appointment making me 7.5 wks. Due near my bday... It was so rushed at the clinic, so many girls there... I cried at the clinic right until the end..I also went into shock in recovery with my bp really low needed some injections to increase my heart...i was sent home within 30mins....bp still not normal. Ive continued to cry every day since...my heart is broken. I am reminded everywhere i look. Babys, embryos, life... Friends are pregnant now too.. im 36 and I regret it more then i could have possibly imagined. I saw my baby on the scan too but thought i was strong and doing a good thing for me n my family. I was wronge.The regret, grief and guilt is unbearable. I too have pain in my heart. I was so anti abortion my whole life (but always supported others in their decisions with no judgement) but I too think theres not enough pre counselling or support or knowledge. The regret is life long.... i would give anything to be blessed with my baby still in my tummy...a failed surgical abortion is prayed for.
Its not only a loss...it one that I caused

I had a surgical abortion fail I went in at 8weeks as in NZ they make you wait in order to ensure nothing is missed. Like you all my symptoms remained and I could still feel weight in my pelvis... They put in a IUD during the procedure about a week later I went to the hospital as I still felt sick the IUD came out and had pain, the didn't do a ultrasound as due to my mental health they assumed I was just anxious even though hormones were still high, they decided to send me home with pain relief and antibiotics. I then spirled into depression and thought I was crazy I still felt entirely pregnant. Then at 12 weeks I woke up in pain after finally convincing myself I wasn't pregnant and I was just mentally ill and thought I had a sever period but I have endometriosis and pcos and had never been in excruciating pain, at this point I was living with my mum to save for my first house. My now husband started work at 3am by 3.30 I was on and off the toilet in agony and by 4am bleeding heavily in the bath at 4.30 I woke mum up saying something isn't right and tired to fill a hot water bottle I ended up calling for my mother in agony for help. By 6am she took me to the hospital at this point I knew in my gut I was having a miscarriage as well as my mother knew too due to the contractions and labour. Once there for 3hrs they tried to tell us it was a painful period until my mother lost it I had bleed a tone and was so week I couldn't speak for myself they tried to send me home with I antibiotics again! I found out after when my mum got me a "water" she was really having a go at the drs to atleast give me a ultrasound, by 11am I was sent for a ultrasound and I had a 9week fetus in me no heart beat it killed me as I had an abortion due to meds I was on not because I wanted to as such. I had carried my lifeless child for 3weeks. I was given meds and at 12midnight i delivered the complete sac. (I had apologies left right and center, i accepted them at the time as i wanted to be alone but im not sure ill ever forgive them for what i went through.) This is a year ago on the 29/01/2017 I went through the miscarriage if you feel something don't let the doctors ignore you. I ended up with sever scar tissue and told I'd never be pregnant or carry a child again. Doctors can be wrong right now I'm pregnant 18weeks on the 5th of Feb 2018.

How was your baby?? Was the baby healthy? I think I'm going thru the same thing.

Wow, so sorry to hear that. And blessings on your baby praying for a healthy delivery for you. Take care

May I asked what happened? They did a surgical abortion yesterday, but Admitted they were essentially going in blind bc they couldn’t detect pregnancy bc I was so early. Blood test confirmed how far along I was, but that’s it. I barely bled & today haven’t bled at all. I’m concerned it didn’t take & like you if it didn’t & assuming all is still ok with it, I’m going to keep it. I can’t do that again. Even though I was out through the procedure, I just will not do that again.

Hello. I am actually going for a second surgical today due to the first surgical failure. I was also 5 weeks during the first. It seems this is common. Something needs to improve. Maybe the guidelines should be changed. What do you think?

Really, pls did you give birth to the child? Is he or she normally because am facing same challenge right now. Plus I need your advice. Thanks

Can someone help me yesterday I did a surgical abortion but the nurse said nothing came out of my uterus but my water broke and after that I started bleeding light thing but today it's brownish, so is it possible that I am still pregnant? and if i am and decide to keep the baby will it be fine or I must do another abortion?

I am in the same position. I feel such deep regret. I pray that it failed because I feel wrong. I didn’t bleed at all and had very little pain or cramping. It’s only been 3 days but I’m still exhausted and my boobs hurt so bad.

I believe I am 7 weeks pregnant. I took 64 Humphrey pills number 11 and don't know what to do. I decided I want the baby now. Is the baby healthy or should I just get an abortion?